1. Totally Responsible Person
John Henderson - EANE

2. Foundational Skill
Stay Positive, Productive and Effective No matter what the circumstances!

3. Objectives Inspire others. Lead by example.
Explore the impact of a positive mindset, and the consequences of victim thinking.
Develop the resiliency that inspires others to move through adversity.

4. EQ + IQ

5. Why Does EQ Matter?
What percent of job success is determined by our IQ?

6. The Victim Mentality
If things are going wrong, or badly, or not to my liking, then someone is to blame.
It is necessary to identify the persons, circumstances, or sources of why things are not as I think they should be.
Blame must be determined and accepted by the wrongdoer, and things must be made right.
I am justified in being emotionally upset. Neither growth nor learning result from the bad things that happen to me.

7. Totally Responsible Person (TRP)
EVERYTHING that happens to me Provides me with Opportunities For Learning And Growth I cannot blame anyone else for how I feel, what I do or the attitude I choose.

8. Opportunity
Stimulus

9. Opportunity
Stimulus CHOICE Response

10. Stimulus CHOICE Response
AWARENESS
AWARENESS A L O W S
Stimulus CHOICE Response

11. Spectrum
Victim TRP
Mentality

12. ELEMENTS of Self-Responsibility
EVERYTHING that happens to me
provides me with opportunities for
learning and growth.

13. ELEMENTS of Self-Responsibility
I cannot blame anyone else for
how I feel
what I do
attitude I choose.

14. ELEMENTS of Self-Responsibility
3. I shall seek no exceptions to this belief…even when I’m not at fault.

15. Mary Barra
Chief Executive Officer, General Motors
“We accept responsibility for our mistakes and commit to doing everything in our power to prevent this from happening again.”

16. Scenarios

17. Moments of Choice Character Moment of Choice
Response Negative Stimulus Reaction
Moment of Choice
Positive
Awareness Develops
Character

18. Totally Responsible Person
Lead Differently and Inspire Others
For whom are you TRP?
At work?
Outside of work?

19. Questions? Thank you for attending!