1. Powerful Questioning

2. Powerful questioning What characterizes a powerful question?
Why powerful questions are important?
How to ask powerful questions ?
What do we focus on?
What challenges coaches may face when asking questions?
Powerful questions: Do’s and Don’ts

3. “Judge a man by his questions rather his answers.”
Voltaire

4. “If I had an hour to solve a problem and my life depended on the solution, I would spend the first 55 minutes determining the proper question to ask, for once I know the proper question, I could solve the problem in less than five minutes.”
ALBERT EINSTEIN

5. What makes a question powerful?
The impact
Setting the foundation
Co-creating the relationship
Communicating effectively
Facilitating learning & results

6. What do characterize a powerful question?

7. PRIRIE Personal Resonate Incisive It relates to you…
Hits you emotionally as well as intellectually…
Incisive
Right to the point…

8. Reverberating Innocent Explicit It keeps coming back to haunt you
It doesn’t have the agenda of the person asking
Explicit
It is very simply expressed

9. A moment of silent meditation
A powerful indicator of power question?
A moment of silent meditation
You are close to an AHA moment
Don’t spoil that moment

10. The client not the story
What do we focus on?
The client not the story
What is on the surface
Projection
What’s running deep
Acting on the fruit
Acting on the root
Vs.
Short term change
Long term change

11. What do we focus on? Patterns: obsession, doubt, fear, regret
Pay attention to words like I should, I must….

12. What are the categories of powerful questions?

13. Anticipation Implementation Resources Assessment Integration
Starting the Session
Clarification
Learning
Substance
Elaboration
Options
Substance
Evaluation
Outcomes
Summary
Exploration
Perspective
Taking Action
Fun as Perspective
Planning
History
Predictions
Reference: Henry Kimsey-House, Karen Kimsey-House, Phillip Sandahl & Laura Whitworth (2011). Co-Active Coaching: Changing Business, Transforming Lives 

14. Anticipation What is possible?
What if it works out exactly as you want it to?
What is the dream?
What is exciting to you about this?
What is the urge? What does your intuition tell you?

15. Assessment What do you make of it? What do you think is best?
How does it look to you?
How do you feel about it?
What resonates for you?

16. Clarification What do you mean? What does it feel like?
What is the part that is not yet clear?
Can you say more?
What do you want?

17. Elaboration Can you tell me more? What else?
What other ideas/thoughts/feelings do you have about it?

18. Evaluation What is the opportunity here? What is the challenge?
How does this fit with your plans/way of life/values?
What do you think that means?
What is your assessment?

19. Example What is an example? For instance? Like what? Such as?
What would it look like?

20. Exploration What is here that you want to explore?
What part of the situation have you not yet explored?
What other angles can you think of?
What is just one more possibility?
What are your other options?

21. For Instance
If you could do it over again, what would you do differently?
If it had been you, what would you have done?
How else could a person handle this?
If you could do anything you wanted, what would you do?

22. Fun as Perspective What does fun mean to you?
What was humorous about the situation?
How can you make this more fun?
How do you want it to be?
If you were to teach people how to have fun, what would you say?

23. History What caused it? What led up to it? What have you tried so far?
What do you make of it all?

24. Implementation What is the action plan?
What will you have to do to get the job done?
What support do you need to accomplish it?
What will you do?
When will you do it?

25. Integration What will you take away from this?
How do you explain this to yourself?
What was the lesson?
How can you make sure you remember what you have learned?
How would you pull all this together?

26. Learning If your life depended on taking action, what would you do?
If you had free choice in the matter, what would you do?
If the same thing came up again, what would you do?
If we could wipe the slate clean, what would you do?
If you had it to do over again, what would you do?

27. Options What are the possibilities?
If you had your choice, what would you do?
What are possible solutions?
What will happen if you do, and what will happen if you don’t?
What options can you create?

28. Outcomes What do you want? What is your desired outcome?
If you got it, what would you have?
How will you know you have reached it?
What would it look like?

29. Perspective
When you are ninety-five years old, what will you want to say about your life?
What will you think about this five years from now?
How does this relate to your life purpose?
In the bigger scheme of things, how important is this?
So what?

30. Planning What do you plan to do about it? What is your game plan?
What kind of plan do you need to create?
How do you suppose you could improve the situation?
Now what?

31. Predictions How do you suppose it will all work out?
What will that get you?
Where will this lead?
What are the chances of success?
What is your prediction?

32. Starting the Session What’s occurred since we last spoke?
What would you like to talk about?
What’s new/the latest/the update?
How was your week?
Where are you right now?

33. Substance What seems to be the trouble?
What seems to be the main obstacle?
What is stopping you?
What concerns you the most about ?
What do you want?

34. Summary What is your conclusion? How is this working?
How would you describe this?
What do you think this all amounts to?
How would you summarize the effort so far?

35. Taking Action What action will you take? And after that?
What will you do? When?
Is this a time for action? What action?
Where do you go from here? When will you do that?
What are your next steps? By what date or time will you complete these steps?

36. Powerful questions: Do’s

37. Listen actively

38. Be in the flow / Dance with your client

39. Follow your gut feeling

40. Be short, concise & clear

41. Don’t repeat yourself

42. Ask permission for some kind of sensitive questions

43. Ask open questions

44. Avoid using “Why”

45. Powerful questions: Don’ts

46. Asking many questions at the same time

47. Being influential/leading

48. Being judgmental towards your client

49. Being judgmental towards your yourself

50. Cutting the client thoughts

51. Jumping to the conclusion