12. Our helping patronizes people

13. Our helping causes shame

14. 1 Peter 2:17 (MSG)
It is God’s will that by doing good, you might cure the ignorance of the fools who think you’re a danger to society. Exercise your freedom by serving God, not by breaking the rules. Treat everyone you meet with dignity.

15. Our helping wastes money

16. Our helping creates new problems

17. Our helping doesn’t challenge systems

18. Luke 10:30
In reply Jesus said: “A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he was attacked by robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead.

20. Our helping needs to know the rules

21. Our helping needs to be wanted

22. Our helping needs to be preserve a person’s dignity

23. Our helping needs to be developmental

24. Our helping needs to focus on relationships