1. Hard to list American customs
So many situations
relinquish bus seat, give gifts..
Variation in customs
geographic difference such as…
religious backgrounds
ethnic identities

2. Different Customs Greeting people when being introduced
A Japanese businessman:bow
An American businessman:shake hands
Lots of differences
materials
customs

3. Guidelines on American customs
Some unacceptable behaviors
Be punctual—give notice
Treat people courteously
Personal space: arm’s length except
1.hit 2.hug 3.be told to be closer
talk face to face
Avoid bowing
discomfort for showing deep respect

4. Devotion to individualism
Trained to be separate individuals
The way children are treated
make choices…
as separate human beings
Parents’ objective
responsible & self-reliant individual
Live at home
immature.
unable to be independent

5. American value on individualism
Heroes who stand out from the crowds
People who overcome adversity: Hellen,
Attitude to their parents: not much respect
Family Relation.: bilogical
Certain phrases to show the individualism
Value on privacy

6. Directness and Assertiveness
Phrases to show directness
Conflicts settlement: honest & straightfor.
Meaning of ASS.: plain & direct
Reactions to indirectness
non-verbal: body & facial
Asians, Americans and Arabs/Latins

7. Friendship in America Close friends
intimate invol. & strong obligation
Acquaintances
lower invol. & obligat.
Occupants of roles
Fear close involvement

8. Friendliness & Friendship
Examples of informality
hi, first name…
Difference between friendliness & friendship
warm & kind, private,
slow to make friends
How do foreigners feel

9. Differences in socializing
Reasons for very few close friends
busy,
move residence
self-reliant individuals
What to do in gathering
take some activities, not just sit and talk
exceptions