1. 13
Great Sex for Life

2. History of Sex The Garden of Eden 4th Century After the Fall
Sex is perfect
After the Fall
Sex is complicated
4th Century
Sex is sinful
17th Century
Sex is dirty

3. History of Sex: 20th Century
– Sex is fun
1970 – Sex if free
1980 – Sex is serious
1990 – Sex should be safe
2000 – Sex is for yourself

4. The Truth About Sex:
Sex is complicated
but not impossible

5. The Truth About Sex:
Sex is sinful
but not within marriage

6. The Truth About Sex:
Sex is dirty
but clean between married people

7. Sex is fun The Truth About Sex:
and also joyful for God and the angels who watch over those who are married

8. Sex is free The Truth About Sex:
and without punishment for those who engage in married love

9. Sex is serious The Truth About Sex:
a serious sign of a married commitment

10. The Truth About Sex:
Sex is safe
if confined to marriage

11. Sex is for self The Truth About Sex:
in the full revelation of self to our marriage partner

12. Sex outside of marriage SPOILS THE Sex inside of marriage

13. God’s Idea of Sex
Sex is good

14. 18 Let your fountain be blessed, And rejoice in the wife of your youth
18 Let your fountain be blessed, And rejoice in the wife of your youth. 19 As a loving hind and a graceful doe, Let her breasts satisfy you at all times; Be exhilarated always with her love.
- Proverbs 5:18-19

15. Sex is for marriage only
God’s Idea of Sex
Sex is good
Sex is for marriage only
“You shall not commit adultery.
- Exodus 20:14

16. Sex is unselfish affection
God’s Idea of Sex
Sex is good
Sex is for marriage only
Sex is unselfish affection

17. 2 But because of immoralities, each man is to have his own wife, and each woman is to have her own husband. 3 The husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband.
- I Corinthians 7:2-3

18. Sex is uninterrupted God’s Idea of Sex
Sex is good
Sex is for marriage only
Sex is unselfish affection
Sex is uninterrupted
Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. - I Corinthians 7:5

19. Why Sex Stops Illness / Incapacity Ignorance Lack of Imagination Habit

20. Communication is the key!

21. Communication is key ~ The best way to improve sex is to improve the way we communicate about sex.

22. 7 Things to say:
“Tell me how to please you.”

23. 7 Things to say: “Tell me how to please you.”
“I want to make love… for fun.”

24. 7 Things to say: “Tell me how to please you.”
“I want to make love… for fun.”
“Seeing your body excites me... don’t hide it from me.”

25. 7 Things to say: “Tell me how to please you.”
“I want to make love… for fun.”
“Seeing your body excites me... don’t hide it from me.”
“Don’t force me to do what I can’t do yet.”

26. 7 Things to say: “Tell me how to please you.”
“I want to make love… for fun.”
“Seeing your body excites me... don’t hide it from me.”
“Don’t force me to do what I can’t do yet.”
“I wish you would initiate sex for a change.”

27. 7 Things to say: “Tell me how to please you.”
“I want to make love… for fun.”
“Seeing your body excites me... don’t hide it from me.”
“Don’t force me to do what I can’t do yet.”
“I wish you would initiate sex for a change.”
“Be kinder to me.”

28. 7 Things to say: “Tell me how to please you.”
“I want to make love… for fun.”
“Seeing your body excites me... don’t hide it from me.”
“Don’t force me to do what I can’t do yet.”
“I wish you would initiate sex for a change.”
“Be kinder to me.”
“Try to understand what stimulates me.”

29. Emotional stimulation before physical stimulation
Women:
Cyclical in nature
Emotional stimulation before physical stimulation

30. Ongoing internal stimulation Visually motivated
Men:
Ongoing internal stimulation
Visually motivated

31. The key is to find a balance between needs and ability to meet desire.

32. All the mysteries about our own sexuality can be expressed and satisfied and made acceptable to ourselves, our partner and God who loves us, even when we are completely naked before Him.