1. RUNNING EFFECTIVE CATHOLIC SCHOOL COUNCIL MEETINGS Gord Wyse Oct 22 2009

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3. 3 Agenda Introduction7:10 – 7:15 Characteristics of Good/Bad Meeting7:15 – 7:20 Preparation7:20 – 7:30 During the Meeting7:30 – 7:35 Chairperson Skills7:35 – 7:40 Decision Making7:40 – 7:45 Ending a Meeting7:45 – 7:50 Q&A7:50 – 7:55

4. 4 Characteristics of Negative Meetings Drifting off the subject Poor preparation Lack of listening Verbosity of participants Length Lack of participation

5. 5 What are people looking for? Define a meetings purpose Send enough information for people to prepare for meeting Allow all attendees to participate Address each item on the agenda Assign follow up actions

6. 6 Preparation for a Meeting Define the purpose of the meeting and the outcomes –Is this solely an information meeting or are decisions needed to be made? Solicit input from members on any other topics/issues that need to be discussed Develop an agenda with timeframes taking into consideration any outside parties coming to speak and the relevant priority of agenda items Distribute the agenda before the meeting Send any relevant information or inform participants of any necessary preparation needed to meet the meeting purpose #1 Failure of most meetings!

7. 7 Agenda Example St. MICHAEL CATHOLIC HIGH SCHOOL PARENT COUNCIL AGENDA – January 16, 2008 Welcome and Open Meeting – Chair7:00 – 7:05 Opening Prayer – All7:05 – 7:10 Approve Minutes – All7:10 – 7:15 Science Dept. – Multi Torso Funding Request7:15 – 7:30 Principal’s Report7:30 – 7:45 Treasurer’s Report7:45 – 7:55 Committee Reports7:55 – 8:30 –Parent Involvement Committee – Gord –School Capacity – Gord –Parish – Joanne Other Business8:30 – 8:45

8. 8 During the Meeting Greet Members and make them feel welcome. Introduce any new members/visitors to the team Start on time. End on Time Review the agenda and set priorities for the meeting Stick to the agenda

9. 9 Chairing the Meeting- Do’s For each item on Agenda-introduce the topic and summarize previous discussion Watch for dominant speakers and ask quiet ones for their input. Summarize points and clarify discussions Note digressions and remind members to stay on task Watch body language of yourself and others

10. 10 Non Verbal Communication UCLA study found 93% of communication effectiveness was due to nonverbal cues Another study found:7% words, 38% voice quality, 55% nonverbal cues Learn to listen with your eyes! –Can tell you when you have talked long enough –Can tell you when someone else wants to talk –Can tell you the mood of the listeners

11. 11 Chairperson Skills Impartiality Assertiveness Staying on course Summarizing –Used to end a topic or discussion –List any decisions made to avoid later misunderstandings –Ensure tasks generated are assigned to specific people/groups

12. 12 What is Consensus Decision Making ? “Consensus decision-making is a decision-making process that not only seeks the agreement of most participants, but also to resolve or mitigate the objections of the minority to achieve the most agreeable decision. Consensus is usually defined as meaning both general agreement, and the process of getting to such agreement.” WikipediaConsensus It doesn’t need to be everyone’s first choice Consensus decision making is the most widely used method but Councils will also use voting to break an impasse.

13. 13 Modified Consensus Model Discussion Proposal Test for Consensus NoYes Modification To Proposal Stand Aside Concerns Raised Consensus Achieved BlockAction PointsOr Vote

14. 14 Ending a Meeting End on time or before Thank all members for attending Summarize decisions made to avoid misunderstandings later Review actions items handed out to council members Ensure members know when next meeting is Follow up with minutes shortly after the meeting

15. Q & A