2.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewha t strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  Do you enjoy people with notably unique personalities very different from yours?

3.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  Do you find it hard to tell whether the person you’re with is having a good time?

4.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  How sorry do you feel on hearing that someone is hurt, upset, in trouble or worried?

5.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  How happy do you feel when told that something good or exciting has happened to someone?

6.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  Do you talk about your real feelings with people you care about?

7.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  Have you been told in some way that your behavior or reactions could be more mature?

8.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  Do you try to help someone feel less embarrassed, such as by sharing a similarly embarrassing experience of yours?

9.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  How much do you complain?

10.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  Would it bother you if someone you were dating seriously, continued a main hobby or interest that you considered dumb or a waste of time?

11.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  While disagreeing, do you put the other person’s needs before your preferences or consider how you might both get what you want?

12.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  How often have you unintentionally embarrassed someone or hurt someone’s feelings?

13.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  When you’re used to doing things a certain way, does it bother you to have to change and do them differently?

14.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  Should someone who deeply cares about you be able to understand your feelings and needs without you having to explain them?

15.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  When alone, do you spend your leisure time imaginatively or creatively, such as by making things or playing music?

16.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  Do you feel uncomfortable around other people?

17.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  Do you give others the impression that you’re somewhat aloof, distant or disinterested?

18.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  Have you felt younger students or children shouldn’t have privileges you didn’t have at that age?

19.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  When working with a group, do you usually volunteer to be responsible for a task?

20.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  Have others confided in you about their problems because they felt you’d understand?

21.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  Does it bother you that teachers differ in homework, grading or classroom behavior policies?

22.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  When choosing a gift for someone you know well, do you usually know what the person likes?

23.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  When facing a difficult personal problem, do you ask others for advice?

24.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  Do you convert awkward or embarrassing situations into enjoyable ones?

25.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  Do you give in to others or let them have their way so they’ll think better of you?

26.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  Do you think you’re too assertive, aggressive, nosy or abrupt with people?

27.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  Do you get upset when little things go wrong or don’t turn out as you wanted?

28.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  Are others able to open up and share their feelings with you?

29.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewh at strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  If your spouse continued enjoying a certain sport/activity once a week but you chose not to participate, would you feel left out?

30.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  When others feel uneasy or uptight, do you usually help them feel more at ease or relaxed?

31.  Write A-F for each question to indicate which response best describes you: A. Never/Not at all B. Rarely/Hardly at all C. Seldom/Not strongly D. Sometimes/Somewhat strongly E. Often/Somewhat strongly F. Always/very strongly  How hard is it for you to talk about your deeper thoughts and feelings honestly and seriously with someone you trust?

32.  For questions: 2,6,8,9, 11-13, 15-17, 20, 24-26, 28, 30  Give yourself points:  A=5  B=4  C=3  D=2  E=1  F=0  For questions: 1, 3-5, 7, 10, 14, 18, 19, 21-23, 27, 29  Give yourself points:  A=0  B=1  C=2  D=3  E=4  F=5