1. { “As Others See You” General Rules for etiquette from Emily Post

2. Don’t attract attention to yourself in public. Cardinal Principle of Etiquette

3. In other words, be mindful of those around you and their needs whether it means you may need to quiet your voice when someone is on the phone or say “excuse me” if you must pass through a group of people or a conversation. Consider those around you

4. Use courteous words when addressing them. please, thank you, “yes, ma’am,” “no, sir” Imagine yourself in the server’s place. Don’t leave a mess at the table. Leave the bathroom clean. Push in your chair. Leave a tip. Consider those who serve you.