1. 10 Habits of Highly Effective People
With
Karen Harrison
K. Harrison & Associates

2. There has been an alarming increase in the number of things I know nothing about!

3. The greatest revolution in our generation is the discovery that human beings, by changing the inner attitudes of their minds, can change the outer aspects of their lives.
William James

4. We are what we repeatedly do
We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then is not an act but a habit.
Aristotle

5. 10 Habits of Highly Effective People
Habit 1: They are proactive

6. Choice not chance determines destiny

7. Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity
Elmer Letterman

8. Elizabeth Kúbler-Ross, B. 1926
“I believe that we are solely responsible for our choices, and we have to accept the consequences of every deed, word, and thought throughout our lifetime.”
Elizabeth Kúbler-Ross, B. 1926

9. Reactive Language There’s nothing I can do. That’s just the way I am.
He makes me so mad.
They won’t allow that.
I have to do that.
I can’t.
I must.
I should.
If only.

10. Proactive Language Let’s look at our alternatives.
I can choose a different approach.
I control my own feelings.
I can create an effective presentation.
I will choose an appropriate response.
I choose.
I prefer.
I will.

11. 10 Habits of Highly Effective People
Habit 2: They set goals and put thought into action.

12. Ready Fire Aim

13. Have you ever noticed that what tires us most in life is never what we’re doing, but the thought of what we haven’t done yet?

14. 10 Habits of Highly Effective People
Habit 3: They creatively visualize.

15. 10 Habits of Highly Effective People
Habit 4: They often stretch
their comfort zones.

16. Comfort Zone
75o
72o
70o
68o
65o
Set Point

17. RISK
“You cannot discover new oceans unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore”

18. “If I had to live my life over again, I’d dare to make more mistakes next time.”
Nadine Stair

19. “A great pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do.”
Walter Gagehot

20. “It is easier to get forgiveness than it is to secure permission.”
Jesuit principle

21. 10 Habits of Highly Effective People
Habit 5: They have high self-concept & self-esteem.

22. It is not what you are that holds you back – it’s what you think you are not.

23. 10 Habits of Highly Effective People
Habit 6: They engage in positive self-talk.

24. 10 Habits of Highly Effective People
Habit 7: They surround themselves with winners and are a positive force
for others.

25. The greatest need of every human being is the need for APPRECIATION.
Adapted from William James

26. “A pat on the back is only a few vertebrae from a kick in the pants, but miles ahead in results.”
V. Wilcox

27. Five Deposits and Five Withdrawals
Kindness vs. Unkindness
Keeping promises vs. Breaking promises
Loyalty vs. Duplicity
Apologies vs. Pride

28. When you’re a positive force, it comes back and pays dividends.
What goes around, comes around.

29. 10 Habits of Highly Effective People
Habit 8: They have an abundance mentality.

30. The Abundance Mentality results in sharing of prestige, of recognition, of profits, of decision making. It opens possibilities, options, alternatives and creativity.
Steven Covey

31. 10 Habits of Highly Effective People
Habit 9: They are focused and persistent.

32. IT IS OKAY TO FAIL;
IT IS NOT OKAY TO GIVE UP!

33. 10 Habits of Highly Effective People
Habit 10: They maintain a balanced lifestyle and have a sense of humour.

34. One Nerve Lady

35. Stressed Zebra

36. Work vs. Play
20%
Worked
Hours
Leisure Time
32%
1975
2000

37. Rules for Guaranteed Stress Generation
Be a perfectionist – never compromise
Harbour inflexible idealism.
Never delegate.
Be sure to please everyone
Always say “YES”.
Never take time for yourself.
Motto: “Everyone else comes first”.
Get emotionally involved in everything you do.
Never make mistakes.
Do not rest until you are done!

38. Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff -
It’s All Small Stuff.

39. Change is an inside job.

40. Before I came here I was confused about this subject
Before I came here I was confused about this subject. Having listened to your presentation,I am still confused but at a higher level.
Enrico Ferme
Nobel Prize Laureate

41. Personal Mission Statement:
“I want to be the kind of person my dog already thinks I am.”