1. Air Force Space Command Guardians of the High Frontier I n t e g r i t y - S e r v i c e - E x c e l l e n c e Sexual Assault Prevention and Response Training UNCLASSIFIED

2. Healthy Sexuality information developed by Mervyn Davies, MA,LPC CACIII, FAPA

3. Elements for Consent: Equal Power base Must know to what one is consenting Must understand the repercussions of behavior Must comprehend societal standards of behavior Must be sober

4. 3 types of behavior Consent Cooperation Coercive

5. Creating psychological safety in relationships Focused attention (seeing reading cues of the other person) Nonjudgmental – I care about you even though I dont like what youre doing Owning feelings Recognition of diversity – Im allowed to be different than you Empathy Trustworthiness

6. Universal goals for healthy sexual development Communication – being able to ask for consent (Listening for a yes) Empathy Accountability – taking responsibility for yourself

7. What is intimacy? Intimacy is communication Intimacy is not sex Sex offenders yearn for intimacy; they are just clueless about how to achieve it Sex is about taking, love making is about sharing Asking for consent eliminates confusion Each behavior receives consent

8. Air Force Space Command Guardians of the High Frontier Questions? Questions?