2. The Problem of Emotionally Unhealthy Spirituality: Part 1 1 Samuel 15:20-31

3. Iceberg Model What Lies Beneath The Surface

4. 20 “But I did obey the L ORD,” Saul said. “I went on the mission the L ORD assigned me. I completely destroyed the Amalekites and brought back Agag their king. 21 The soldiers took sheep and cattle from the plunder, the best of what was devoted to God, in order to sacrifice them to the L ORD your God at Gilgal.”

5. 22 But Samuel replied: “Does the L ORD delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices as much as in obeying the L ORD ? To obey is better than sacrifice, and to heed is better than the fat of rams. 23 For rebellion is like the sin of divination, and arrogance like the evil of idolatry. Because you have rejected the word of the L ORD, he has rejected you as king.”

6. 24 Then Saul said to Samuel, “I have sinned. I violated the L ORD ’s command and your instructions. I was afraid of the men and so I gave in to them. 25 Now I beg you, forgive my sin and come back with me, so that I may worship the L ORD.” 26 But Samuel said to him, “I will not go back with you. You have rejected the word of the L ORD, and the L ORD has rejected you as king over Israel!”

7. 27 As Samuel turned to leave, Saul caught hold of the hem of his robe, and it tore. 28 Samuel said to him, “The L ORD has torn the kingdom of Israel from you today and has given it to one of your neighbors—to one better than you. 29 He who is the Glory of Israel does not lie or change his mind; for he is not a human being, that he should change his mind.” 30 Saul replied, “I have sinned. But please honor me before the elders of my people and before Israel; come back with me, so that I may worship the L ORD your God.” 31 So Samuel went back with Saul, and Saul worshiped the L ORD. 1 Samuel 15:20-31

8. 1.Says “No” to Reflection and Self-awareness. 2.Says “No” to Cultivating their Personal Relationship with God. 3.Says “No” to being Broken through Setbacks and Difficulties. Emotionally Unhealthy Spirituality

9. Remember how the LORD your God led you all the way in the desert these forty years, to humble you and to test you in order to know what was in your heart, whether or not you would keep his commands. He humbled you, causing you to hunger and feeding you with manna, …to teach you that man does not live on bread alone but on every word that comes from the mouth of God. Deuteronomy 8:3-5

10. 1.Says “Yes” to Reflection and Self-awareness. 2.Says “Yes” to Cultivating their Personal Relationship with God. 3.Says “Yes” to being Broken through Setbacks and Difficulties. Emotionally Healthy Spirituality

12. 1.Using God to run from God 2.Ignoring the emotions of anger, sadness, and fear 3.Dying to the wrong things 4.Denying the past’s impact on the present 5.Dividing life into “secular” &“sacred” compartments 6.Doing for God instead of being with God 7.Spiritualizing away conflict 8.Covering over brokenness, weakness, and failure 9.Living without limits 10.Judging the spiritual journeys of others 10 Symptoms of Emotionally Unhealthy Spirituality

13. “…he delights in a broken and contrite heart.” Psalm 51:17