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Should Parents Spank their Children?. 2 SPANKING Not a panacea Not a pariah A proper place for its use to successfully discipline children SPANKING Not.

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1 Should Parents Spank their Children?

2 2 SPANKING Not a panacea Not a pariah A proper place for its use to successfully discipline children SPANKING Not a panacea Not a pariah A proper place for its use to successfully discipline children

3 3 CORPORAL PUNISHMENT Help parents learn the value & place of properly using it Help parents know when & how to use spanking Help parents resist the error that spanking is wrong & should never be used CORPORAL PUNISHMENT Help parents learn the value & place of properly using it Help parents know when & how to use spanking Help parents resist the error that spanking is wrong & should never be used

4 4 Wisdom of Men “If we are ever to turn toward a kindlier society and a safer world, a revulsion against the physical punishment of children would be a good place to start.” Dr. Benjamin Spock Wisdom of Men “If we are ever to turn toward a kindlier society and a safer world, a revulsion against the physical punishment of children would be a good place to start.” Dr. Benjamin Spock

5 5 Wisdom of Men “In reality, spanking only teaches a child how to be abusive.” Marlene Resnick “Spanking Teaches Wrong Lessons” Wisdom of Men “In reality, spanking only teaches a child how to be abusive.” Marlene Resnick “Spanking Teaches Wrong Lessons”

6 6 Wisdom of Men “Hitting is actually not biblical.” askdrsears.com Wisdom of Men “Hitting is actually not biblical.” askdrsears.com

7 7 Wisdom of God IT IS RIGHT He who spares his rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him promptly. (Proverbs 13:24) Wisdom of God IT IS RIGHT He who spares his rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him promptly. (Proverbs 13:24)

8 8 Wisdom of God IT IS NEEDED Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; The rod of correction will drive it far from him. (Proverbs 22:15) Wisdom of God IT IS NEEDED Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; The rod of correction will drive it far from him. (Proverbs 22:15)

9 9 Wisdom of God IT IS NOT ABUSIVE Do not withhold correction from a child, For if you beat him with a rod, he will not die. (Proverbs 23:13) Wisdom of God IT IS NOT ABUSIVE Do not withhold correction from a child, For if you beat him with a rod, he will not die. (Proverbs 23:13)

10 10 Wisdom of God IT WORKS You shall beat him with a rod, And deliver his soul from hell. (Proverbs 23:14) The rod and rebuke give wisdom… (Proverbs 29:15) Wisdom of God IT WORKS You shall beat him with a rod, And deliver his soul from hell. (Proverbs 23:14) The rod and rebuke give wisdom… (Proverbs 29:15)

11 11 Wisdom of the earth or wisdom from above, Jas. 3:13-18 World’s wisdom is foolishness with God, 1 Cor. 3:18-20 Sons receive discipline, Hebrews 12:3-11 Wisdom of the earth or wisdom from above, Jas. 3:13-18 World’s wisdom is foolishness with God, 1 Cor. 3:18-20 Sons receive discipline, Hebrews 12:3-11 A Classic Choice

12 12 Instrument of punishment (not abuse) Expression of love (not hate) Instrument of punishment (not abuse) Expression of love (not hate) The Rod of Correction

13 13 Solomon, 2 Sam. 7:14-15 Messianic, Psa. 89:30-33 Shows God’s love, Prov. 3:11-12 Application of punishment, Lam. 3:1 (2:20-22) Solomon, 2 Sam. 7:14-15 Messianic, Psa. 89:30-33 Shows God’s love, Prov. 3:11-12 Application of punishment, Lam. 3:1 (2:20-22) Rod of Correction: OT

14 14 Preaching, 1 Cor. 4:21 Church discipline, 1 Cor. 5:3-5 Trials of life, Heb. 12:3-7 (5:7-8) Preaching, 1 Cor. 4:21 Church discipline, 1 Cor. 5:3-5 Trials of life, Heb. 12:3-7 (5:7-8) Rod of Correction: NT

15 15 Love for child, Prov. 3:12; 29:17 Promptly, Prov. 13:24 (Eccl. 8:11) Consistently, Col. 3:21 Teach respect, to profit the child & to bear good fruit, Heb. 12:9-11 When teaching refused, Prov. 10:13 Love for child, Prov. 3:12; 29:17 Promptly, Prov. 13:24 (Eccl. 8:11) Consistently, Col. 3:21 Teach respect, to profit the child & to bear good fruit, Heb. 12:9-11 When teaching refused, Prov. 10:13 Rod of Correction: PARENTS Prov. 3:11-12 (How & Why)

16 16 Lawmaker Wants ‘No Spanking’ Law in California Local Legislator Proposes Ban Jan. 19 - KGO - It's an old argument -- to spank or not to spank children. Now California could theoretically be the first state to outlaw parental spanking. The proposal includes penalties of up to a year in jail and fines of as much as $1000 dollars. By Nannette Miranda, ABC7/KGO-TV/DT Lawmaker Wants ‘No Spanking’ Law in California Local Legislator Proposes Ban Jan. 19 - KGO - It's an old argument -- to spank or not to spank children. Now California could theoretically be the first state to outlaw parental spanking. The proposal includes penalties of up to a year in jail and fines of as much as $1000 dollars. By Nannette Miranda, ABC7/KGO-TV/DT

17 17 Spanking is described as… A form of child abuse Too rampant in our society Violent and anger Only works temporarily Harmful to a child’s development and individuality Spanking is described as… A form of child abuse Too rampant in our society Violent and anger Only works temporarily Harmful to a child’s development and individuality

18 18 “Beat” (strike, clap, applaud), Prov. 23:13-14 While there is hope, Prov. 19:18 Cleanses away evil, Prov. 20:30 “Beat” (strike, clap, applaud), Prov. 23:13-14 While there is hope, Prov. 19:18 Cleanses away evil, Prov. 20:30 Spanking is called “abuse”

19 19 Is love “too rampant”? Prov. 13:24 Could it be the wrong use and no use of spanking that is “too rampant”? Is love “too rampant”? Prov. 13:24 Could it be the wrong use and no use of spanking that is “too rampant”? Spanking said to be “too rampant”

20 20 Properly used, it breeds obedient children, Heb. 5:8 Drives away foolishness, Prov. 22:15 Properly used, it breeds obedient children, Heb. 5:8 Drives away foolishness, Prov. 22:15 Spanking said to breed violent children

21 21 It does work, Prov. 29:17 (Heb. 12:9; Matt. 10:28) Only one type of correction; all should be used It does work, Prov. 29:17 (Heb. 12:9; Matt. 10:28) Only one type of correction; all should be used Spanking said to only work temporarily

22 22 God is the role model, Prov. 3:11-12 Is it a better role model not to correct disobedience & rudeness? Could it be parents are following the model they saw when they were kids? God is the role model, Prov. 3:11-12 Is it a better role model not to correct disobedience & rudeness? Could it be parents are following the model they saw when they were kids? Spanking said to be the wrong role model for kids and harms their development

23 23 Who do you trust to teach you about rearing your children; man or God? (Prov. 14:12; 1 Cor. 1:25) PARENTS

24 24 Are you willing to accept God’s correction & bear the fruit of righteousness? (Heb. 12:9-11) CHRISTIAN

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