1. DISENFRANCHISED GRIEF: STRATEGIES FOR ADDRESSING SAME-SEX GRIEF ISSUES Presenters: Mary E. Garrison, LCSW, ACSW Associate Professor of Social Work - Millikin University NASW Illinois Board Member – East Central District Chair Nancy J. Curtin, Ph.D Associate Professor of Communication - Millikin University Department of Communication Chair Tweet us at #NASWIL

2. Session Preview: Historical Perspective Case Study Concepts & Case Connections Strategies & Techniques

3. Historical Perspective: Focus on Gays Emerging Focus on Lesbians Our Focus Today: Gays and Lesbians

4. Case Presentation: Nancy & Jill

5. Disenfranchised Grief (DG): Conceptualization of Definition Examples Impact of DG on Same-Sex Couples

6. “Case Connections”

7. Same-Sex Grieving Partners: Unique Factors Attitudes about Same-Sex Couples  Discrimination  Heteronormativity Role of Person & Relationship Disclosure  Internal  Definition of relationship  External  Degree of “Outness”

8. Same-Sex Grieving Partners: Unique Factors Cause/Reason for Death Stigma Resource Availability Lack of effective/appropriate resources Support groups Counseling Professional Services Result = Disenfranchised Grief

9. Cultural Competence: Social work perspective  Assumptions  Use of language  Labeling/defining relationship  Reference to deceased  Centrality of relationship

10. Cultural Competence: Communication Perspective  Defining/Labeling the Relationship  Disclosing the Relationship (degree of “outness”)  Identifying the Context of the Disclosure  Managing the Disclosure

11. Intervention Strategies: Same-sex grieving partners  Language Use  Mirror client’s language with the relational label & feelings.  Acknowledgement/Communication of DG  Provide context for client  Validate

12.  Validation of Loss  Avoid minimization of relationship and feelings  Recognition and Identification of Communication  Consider internal messages  Question external messages Intervention Strategies: Same-sex grieving partners

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