1. HPC3O: Unit 4 Parenting Styles and Outcomes
How does the way a parent raises a child impact the child’s development? Why?

2. Quick Quiz: Match Responsive to children's’ needs.
Indifferent to children, ignore them
Reject their children
Critical, derogatory, dissatisfied with their children.
Warm, understanding and accepting.
Hostile and antisocial
Poor self-control, difficulty with social interactions when teenagers.
Compliant with parent’s wishes
Happy and friendly
Dissatisfied with themselves.

3. Matching Key Responsive to children's’ needs.
Indifferent to children, ignore them
Reject their children
Critical, derogatory, dissatisfied with their children.
Warm, understanding and accepting.
Hostile and antisocial
Poor self-control, difficulty with social interactions when teenagers.
Compliant with parent’s wishes
Happy and friendly
Dissatisfied with themselves.

4. Types of Parenting Styles and Outcomes
There are three Parenting Styles.
Authoritarian (Brick Wall)
Permissive (Jelly Fish)
Democratic (Backbone)
Each style has been studied, and each style has been associated with an outcome for children

5. Authoritarian Style: Limits without Freedom.
Parents’ word is law, parents have absolute control.
Misconduct is punished
Affection and praise are rarely give
Parents try to control children's’ behavior and attitudes
They value unquestioned obedience
Children are told what to do, how to do it, and where to do it, and when to do it.

6. Outcomes of Authoritarian Style
Blindly Obedient
Distrustful
Withdrawn
Unhappy
Hostile
Not High Achievers
Passive
Children from authoritarian homes are so strictly controlled that they are often prevented from making their own decisions

8. Permissive Style: Freedom without limits.
Parents allow their children to do their own thing.
Little respect for order and routine.
Parents make few demands on children.
Discipline is lax: rarely punish
Non controlling, non-demanding
Usually warm, indulgent
Children walk all over the parents

9. Outcome of Permissive Parenting
Aggressive
Least self—reliant
Least self-controlled
Least exploratory
Most unhappy
Children from permissive homes often get used to having what they want, but without guidance; they can be spoiled, aimless, anxious, insecure, rebellious

11. Democratic (Authoritative): Freedom within limits.
Middle ground between the two above
Parents set reasonable limits and enforce rules
Willing to listen receptively to child’s requests interests, and questions.
Children contribute to discussion of issues and make some of their own decisions
Exert firm control when necessary, but explain reasoning behind it.
Loving, consistent, demanding
Combine control with encouragement

12. Outcomes of Democratic Style
Happy
Mostly self-reliant
Friendly, generous
Cooperative
High-achiever’
Less likely to be disruptive or delinquent
Children whose parents expect them to perform well, to fulfill commitments, and to participate actively in family duties, experience the satisfaction that comes from meeting responsibilities and achieving success.

13. Back bone: parents need it.

14. Ways that parents can build a child's self-esteem.
Provide more successes than failures for the child.
Give lots of encouragement.
Give them freedom to fail with acceptance.
Allow independence.
Give unconditional love.
Do not set standards unreasonably high.
Avoid ridicule.
Eliminate the negative.

15. Ways that parents can build a child's self-esteem.
Be available.
Be a good role model.
Give your children responsibility
Help your child develop talents
Take their ideas, emotions and feelings seriously.
Set Limits
Allow exploration and encourage questions.

16. Summary: Democratic parents provide the best outcomes for their kids
How you parent (what the home environment is like) effects your child’s emotional well being for the rest of their lives
What parenting styles and outcomes have you seen?