1. Welcome to Leadership and Self-Deception:
The Hidden Key to Improving Results
Session Two

2. Not seeing that I play a role in the problem.
Self-Deception
Not seeing that I play a role in the problem.

3. Not acting on what I feel I should do for another.
Self-Betrayal
Not acting on what I feel I should do for another.

4. In the Box
Self-deception.

5. each other with the justification for
Collusion
When two or more people are in the box, blame each other, and thereby provide
each other with the justification for
their behaviors.

6. 1. Self-deception is caused by a single _______ called self-betrayal.
Course Review
1. Self-deception is caused by a single _______ called self-betrayal.
GERM

7. Course Review
2. Self-betrayal is an action contrary to what I feel I should do for _________.
OTHERS

8. Course Review 3. When I betray myself, I begin to see
the world in a way that _________ my
self-betrayal.
JUSTIFIES

9. 4. This self-justifying view of the world is ____________.
Course Review
4. This self-justifying view of the world is ____________.
SELF-DECEPTION

10. 5. To be in self-deception is to be _______________.
Course Review
5. To be in self-deception is to be _______________.
IN THE BOX

11. 6. To be in the box is to see others as _________.
Course Review
6. To be in the box is to see others as _________.
OBJECTS

12. 7. One characteristic of being in the box is an attitude of _____.
Course Review
7. One characteristic of being in the box is an attitude of _____.
BLAME

13. 8. Being in the box, we _______ others to be
Course Review
8. Being in the box, we _______ others to be
in the box.
PROVOKE

14. Course Review
9. When two or more people are in the box together they _______ in giving each other justification.
COLLUDE

15. 10. We leave the box when we cease ____________.
Course Review
10. We leave the box when we cease ____________.
SELF-BETRAYAL

16. Course Review
11. Relationships where we are already out of the box gives us ________ to get out of the box in other relationships.
LEVERAGE

17. Course Review
12. To be out of the box is to see others as ______. We are not justifying ourselves by _______ them.
PEOPLE
BLAMING