2. “With the exception of the imperial offspring of the Ming dynasty and the dauphins of pre-Revolutionary France, contemporary American kids may represent the most indulged young people in the history of the world” Elizabeth Kolbert (SPOILED ROTTEN: Why do kids rule the roost?)

3. Today’s Teenagers There are always exceptions to the rule where we read of amazing children. That said, ours is a culture of kids who are growing into “big kids” or “adultescence”: “An adult who continues to participate in and enjoy youth culture.” (wikipedia).

4. Common for Teens of Today

5. Other Cultures Jews: Boys (13) /girls (12) – obligated to keep the commandments of the Law of Moses (Torah); (boys) take part in the worship services; form binding contracts; testify before religious courts; marry. 3 rd world countries: children (as early as 3 years old) work to benefit their families. It is expected.

6. It is Possible ~ Responsible by 12 It is reasonable to expect our children to be responsible by the age of 12: Ladies: cook, care for young children, etc. Men: labor, seeking true wisdom, etc. Let’s use God’s inspired word to lead us in a biblically sound standard “divine expectations for our teenagers”

7. Jesus 12 Years Old

8. Passover Feast: Lk. 2:41-52 Jesus’ parents made the trip: every year. Vs. 41-42 Jesus stayed behind. Vss. 43-45 His parents found him… vss. 46-48a in the temple in the midst of teachers Listening to teachers; asking them questions (Teachers) were amazed at His understanding and questions He spoke to his parents with maturity. Vs. 48b-49 He subjected himself to his parents. V. 51 Conclusion: Jesus increased in wisdom/stature; in favor with God and men. V. 52

9. EXPECTING MORE FROM OUR CHILDREN TODAY

10. Teenagers should obey immediately If your child does not obey immediately then that he has chosen when/if he will obey: it is on his terms, not those over him. If your child obeys but not kindly (respectfully): then he has not displayed honor to his parent. Eph. 6:2 (cp. 1 Jn. 5:3)

11. Teens Should Not Be Reminded: To wake up, do their work (school, home, chores). To show respect to all people: siblings, parents, others (friends, adults). Ultimately, parents should expect that their teenagers to live as adults: with purpose, destiny, and responsibility.

12. Conclusion Do you expect what the parents expected from Jesus? Teens: are you patterning your life after the twelve year old Jesus?