1. Foundations of Healthy Relationships
The roles you play in relationships with…
Friends
Family
Community
…are part of your everyday life.

2. In this lesson, you will learn to:
Lesson Objectives
In this lesson, you will learn to:
Compare and contrast the positive and negative effects of relationships with peers, family, and friends on physical, mental/emotional, and social health
Demonstrate how to communicate needs, wants, and emotions in healthy ways
Point out character traits that promote healthy relationships with peers, family, and friends

3. Healthy Relationships
What Is a Healthy Relationship?
A healthy relationship is one in which both people benefit and feel comfortable. Healthy relationships are based on shared values and interests and mutual respect.

4. Healthy Relationships Community Relationships
Forms of Healthy Relationships
Healthy family relationships enhance all sides of your health triangle.
The love, care, and encouragement you receive from family members also contribute to your mental/emotional health.
Family Relationships
Friendships
Community Relationships

5. Healthy Relationships
Roles with Peers, Family, and Friends
You probably play many roles, such as daughter or son, sibling, best friend, and employee.
The role you play in a relationship may be obvious. Example: When you baby-sit a neighbor’s child, you are an employee.
Sometimes your roles may change gradually or even suddenly. Example: Your relationship with a fellow choir member may change if you begin dating.
Role changes can be confusing and can make it difficult to know how to act.

6. Building Healthy Relationships
Three Cs of Healthy Relationships
You communicate to let others know your feelings, thoughts, and expectations.
Communication also lets you discover the feelings, needs, wants, and knowledge of others.
Communication
Cooperation
Compromise

7. Building Healthy Relationships
Characteristics of Healthy Relationships
All good relationships—whether with family members, friends, or other members of your community—have certain recognizable characteristics.
Mutual Respect
Consideration
Honesty
Dependability
Commitment

8. Character and Healthy Relationships
Traits of Good Character
You can build a foundation for healthy relationships by
demonstrating the six main traits of good character.
Trustworthiness
Fairness
Respect
Caring
Responsibility
Citizenship

9. Character and Healthy Relationships
Trustworthiness
You show trustworthiness when you are honest, reliable, and loyal.
Trustworthy people don’t cheat, steal, or deceive; they have the courage to do what’s right.
Example: Hector finds a wallet containing $300. He uses the name on the driver’s license and the phone book to call the owner so that he can return the wallet.

10. Character and Healthy Relationships
Fairness
You show fairness when you play by the rules, take turns, and share.
A fair person listens to others and is open-minded.
Example: Maria shows fairness by telling the referee that the volleyball was on the line and the opposing team won the point.

11. Character and Healthy Relationships
Respect
You show respect by using good manners, being considerate of others, and being tolerant of differences.
Example: Sid knows that his dad brought a lot of work home from the office. Sid turns down the volume of his music so he won’t disturb his father.

12. Character and Healthy Relationships
Caring
You show that you are caring when you are kind and compassionate.
Caring means putting in time and energy to help others.
Example: Juanita is entering a store. She holds the door open for a man whose arms are filled with packages.

13. Character and Healthy Relationships
Responsibility
You show that you are responsible when you do what is expected of you and are accountable for your choices.
Being responsible also means that you use self-control, think before you act, and always try your best.
Example: Sarah’s drama rehearsal runs late. She calls her parents to let them know she is going to be late.

14. Character and Healthy Relationships
Citizenship
You show good citizenship by cooperating and doing your share to improve your school and community.
You obey laws and rules and respect authority.
Example: Brad sees that someone has left an empty juice bottle on a table in the school cafeteria. He picks up the bottle and puts it in a recycling bin.

15. Quick Review
Choose the appropriate option.
Q. _________ is a problem-solving method that involves each participant’s giving up something to reach a solution that satisfies everyone.
Compromise
Communication
Cooperation
Relationship

16. A. 1. Compromise Quick Review - Answer
Compromise is a problem-solving method that involves each participant’s giving up something to reach a solution that satisfies everyone.
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17. Quick Review
Choose the appropriate option.
Q. A relationship is a bond or connection you have with other people. Family relationships have a positive effect on your emotional health when they provide love, care, and encouragement.
True
False

18. Quick Review - Answer
A. True. A relationship is a bond or connection you have with other people. Family relationships have a positive effect on your emotional health when they provide love, care, and encouragement.
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19. Quick Review
Choose the appropriate option.
Q. Which entry below does not signify the traits of a healthy relationship?
Communication
Possessiveness
Cooperation
Compromise

20. A. 2. possessiveness Quick Review - Answer
The traits of a healthy relationship are not signified by possessiveness.
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21. Q. Family members can help relationships by demonstrating:
Quick Review
Choose the appropriate option.
Q. Family members can help relationships by demonstrating:
Respect and honesty
Consideration
Commitment
All of the above

22. A. 4. All of the above Quick Review - Answer
Family members can help relationships by demonstrating respect and honesty, consideration, and commitment.
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24. Quick Review - Answer
A. Correct! Compromise is a problem-solving method that involves each participant’s giving up something to reach a solution that satisfies everyone.
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25. Quick Review - Answer
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26. Quick Review - Answer
A. Correct! A relationship is a bond or connection you have with other people. Family relationships have a positive effect on your emotional health when they provide love, care, and encouragement.
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27. Quick Review - Answer
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28. Quick Review - Answer
A. Correct! The traits of a healthy relationship are not signified by the following: possessiveness.
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29. Quick Review - Answer
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30. Quick Review - Answer
A. Correct! Family members can help relationships by demonstrating respect and honesty, consideration, and commitment.
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31. Quick Review - Answer
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32. Healthy Relationships
What Is a Healthy Relationship?
A healthy relationship is one in which both people benefit and feel comfortable. Healthy relationships are based on shared values and interests and mutual respect.
A relationship is a bond or connection you have with other people.

33. Healthy Relationships Community Relationships
Forms of Healthy Relationships
Your friends can be of any age, and you can choose them for different reasons.
Good friends share similar values.
Maintaining a good friendship can sometimes be hard work, but it is well worth the effort.
Family Relationships
Friendships
Community Relationships

34. Healthy Relationships Community Relationships
Forms of Healthy Relationships
Members of a community work together to promote the safety and well-being of the entire community.
You can demonstrate good citizenship by obeying laws and rules, by being a friendly and helpful neighbor, and by contributing to efforts to improve your school and community.
Family Relationships
Friendships
Community Relationships

35. Healthy Relationships Community Relationships
Forms of Healthy Relationships
A friendship is a significant relationship between two people that is based on caring, trust, and consideration.
Your friends can be of any age, and you can choose them for different reasons.
Good friends share similar values.
Maintaining a good friendship can sometimes be hard work, but it is well worth the effort.
Family Relationships
Friendships
Community Relationships

36. Healthy Relationships Community Relationships
Forms of Healthy Relationships
Citizenship is the way you conduct yourself as a member of the community.
Members of a community work together to promote the safety and well-being of the entire community.
You can demonstrate good citizenship by obeying laws and rules, by being a friendly and helpful neighbor, and by contributing to efforts to improve your school and community.
Family Relationships
Friendships
Community Relationships

37. Healthy Relationships
Roles with Peers, Family, and Friends
You probably play many roles, such as daughter or son, sibling, best friend, and employee.
The role you play in a relationship may be obvious. Example: When you baby-sit a neighbor’s child, you are an employee.
Sometimes your roles may change gradually or even suddenly. Example: Your relationship with a fellow choir member may change if you begin dating.
Role changes can be confusing and can make it difficult to know how to act.
A role is a part you play in a relationship.

38. Building Healthy Relationships
Three Cs of Healthy Relationships
Working together through cooperation helps build strong relationships.
Activities such as helping someone to move a heavy object are almost impossible without cooperation.
Communication
Cooperation
Compromise

39. Building Healthy Relationships
Three Cs of Healthy Relationships
The “give and take” of effective compromise strengthens relationships.
By your willingness to give up something in order to reach a solution, you show the other person that you value the relationship.
Communication
Cooperation
Compromise

40. Building Healthy Relationships
Three Cs of Healthy Relationships
You communicate to let others know your feelings, thoughts, and expectations.
Communication also lets you discover the feelings, needs, wants, and knowledge of others.
Communication
Cooperation
Communication refers to the ways in which you send messages to and receive messages from others.
Compromise

41. Building Healthy Relationships
Three Cs of Healthy Relationships
Working together through cooperation helps build strong relationships.
Activities such as helping someone to move a heavy object are almost impossible without cooperation.
Communication
Cooperation is working together for the good of all.
Cooperation
Compromise

42. Building Healthy Relationships
Three Cs of Healthy Relationships
The “give and take” of effective compromise strengthens relationships.
By your willingness to give up something in order to reach a solution, you show the other person that you value the relationship.
Communication
Compromise is
a problem-solving method that involves each participant’s giving up something to reach a solution that satisfies everyone.
Cooperation
Compromise