1. Pete Scazzero Eagles Leadership Conference – Sabah 2012 Emotionally Healthy Spirituality

2. Though an army beseige me, my heart will not fail. my heart will not fail. though war break out against me, though war break out against me, even then I will be confident even then I will be confident One thing I ask of the Lord, this only do I seek this only do I seek that I may dwell in the house of the Lord that I may dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life, all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the Lord to gaze upon the beauty of the Lord and to seek Him in His temple. and to seek Him in His temple. © Pete and Geri Scazzero 2012 Ps. 27:3-4

3. I. The Great Challenge Before Us © Pete and Geri Scazzero 2012

4. 1.Church almost indistinguishable from the world 2.People in our churches not experiencing deep transformation. 3.The “emotional intelligence” of our people inside church is not any different from those outside. 4. The marriage institution is deteriorating in North America and beyond. © Pete and Geri Scazzero 2012

5. 5.Most people (even leaders) not deeply in Scripture and prayer. 6.Church not effectively transforming society/culture. 7.Church leadership remains violent leader’s soul and family 8.Social media and new technologies are profoundly changing our capacity for deep personal relationship with Jesus and other people. © Pete and Geri Scazzero 2012

6. II. Journey of Four Conversions © Pete and Geri Scazzero 2012

7. Journey of Four Conversions # 1. Becoming a Christian © Pete and Geri Scazzero 2012

10. Iceberg Model What Lies Beneath The Surface © Pete and Geri Scazzero 2012

13. Emotional Health Emotional Healthand Spiritual Maturity areInseparable It is not possible to be spiritually mature while remaining emotionally immature. © Pete and Geri Scazzero 2012 #2. Emotional Health

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15. Different Parts/Components of Who We Are

16. As Goes the Leader’s Marriage, So Goes the Church “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife and the two will become one flesh.” This is a profound mystery –but I am talking about Christ and the church. Ephesians 5:31-32 © Pete and Geri Scazzero 2012

17. (Cultivating a Deep Interior Life Anchored in the Love of God) © Pete and Geri Scazzero 2012 #3. Contemplative Spirituality

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19. He (Jesus) came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him. She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord's feet listening to what he said. But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, "Lord, don't you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!" But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, "Lord, don't you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!" "Martha, Martha," the Lord answered, "you are worried and upset about many things, but only one thing is needed. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.“ "Martha, Martha," the Lord answered, "you are worried and upset about many things, but only one thing is needed. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.“ (Luke 10:38-42) © Pete and Geri Scazzero 2012

20. Martha – Active, working for Jesus, but missing Him. Mary – Sitting at the Lord’s feet in contemplation Knowing Jesus, being with Jesus. © Pete and Geri Scazzero 2012 Balancing Activity and Contemplation

21. Contemplation (Being with God) Activity Your Life © Pete and Geri Scazzero 2012

22. Activity Your Life © Pete and Geri Scazzero 2012 Contemplation (Being with God)

23. © Pete and Geri Scazzero 2012 #4. Slowing Down to Lead with Integrity

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25. Pretend Self Solid Self © Pete and Geri Scazzero 2012 Solid Self and Pretend Self

26. © Pete and Geri Scazzero 2012 Emotionally Healthy Spirituality Components

27. © Pete and Geri Scazzero 2012 Invitation to a Radical Journey with Christ

28. Next Steps 1.Begin the Journey and Engage the Message 2.Process Emotionally Healthy Spirituality in Small Group © Pete and Geri Scazzero 2012

29. 3. Emotionally Healthy Skills Curriculum 4. Stay Connected (Facebook/blog/twitter) © Pete and Geri Scazzero 2012

30. Emotional Health Emotional Healthand Spiritual Maturity areInseparable It is not possible to be spiritually mature while remaining emotionally immature. © Pete and Geri Scazzero 2012 Emotional Health

31. What are you mad about? What are you sad about? What are you anxious about? What are you glad about? © Pete and Geri Scazzero 2012 Explore the Iceberg