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Settling Sibling Squabbles Dawnita S. Nilles NDSU Extension Agent/Family Resource Coordinator NDSU Extension Service and Region IV, CSCC Serving families in the Counties of Grand Forks, Nelson, Pembina & Walsh
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Why do Children Fight? Space Possessions Achievements Individual Identities Parental Love Attention
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Settling Sibling Squabbles Children will learn more. If you step in, it usually means blaming someone-- most often the older child. Forces kids to find a solution themselves. Difficult as it may be, it is best to intervene as little as possible. Here’s why:
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Level I: Normal Bickering Keep telling yourself the children are having an important experience in conflict resolution
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Level II: Situation is heating up Acknowledge their anger Reflect each child’s point of view Describe the problem with respect Express confidence in the children’s ability to find a mutually agreeable solution Leave the room
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Level III: Possible danger Inquire Let them know If the playing is too rough for you
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Level IV: Definite Danger Describe what’s going on Separate the children
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Reducing Sibling Rivalry give attention to each child set rules or limits appreciate differences and avoid comparisons treat each child uniquely give children time to play apart expect kids to share when appropriate temper the amount of parent-initiated competition be a positive role model don’t always allow the younger child to “win”
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Overall Tips for Dealing With Sibling Squabbles set clearly defined rules for behavior teach children how to settle disputes without quarreling use humor remember: it’s alright to be angry establish privacy areas
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Remember: Fair Does Not Mean Equal focus on individual needs show children they’re all loved uniquely give time in terms of need focus on feelings
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