1. Respect for All: Positive Peer Groups

2. Lesson Objectives: Reflect on the health of your relationships Identify the key elements of positive relationships Identify the key elements of negative relationships Provide resources for those who may be in a negative relationships

3. Video & Survey https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2L3DHsy dvdI&feature=youtu.be https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2L3DHsy dvdI&feature=youtu.be

4. Discussion Questions Did anything about the results of the survey surprise you? What are central elements of a positive relationship? What are the central elements of a negative relationship? Why is it important to be in healthy relationships? Why do so many people stay in bad relationships? What can you do if you are in a negative relationship? What can you do if you see someone else in a negative relationship?

5. Warning Signs of Negative Relationships Physical, Verbal, or Emotional Abuse Possessive or Jealous behavior Blames you for their problems Unpredictable and/or severe mood swings Does not honor your boundaries Gets angry when they disagree with you Abuses drugs and/or alcohol Constantly threatens to break up or not be your friend Abusive to objects or animals Ignores your feelings Insults your weight, religion, race, values, or opinions Demands all of your time

6. Resources ORHS Counseling Department: 933-6980 ext. 3050 Well Space Health: 24-Hour Suicide Prevention and Crisis Hotline: (916) 368-3111 OR (800) 273-8255 The Center for Violence Free Relationships: (916) 939-4464 The Center Crisis Line: (530) 626-1131 Progress House Counseling Center: (530) 642-1715 Summit Counseling Services: (530) 295-9313 New Morning Emergency Youth Shelter 24-hour hotline: (530) 626-4190

7. How You Can Help Helping Yourself: – Constantly reflect on the health of your relationships – Know you deserve happy, healthy relationships where you are valued – Seek help if you are in an unhealthy relationship – Report abuse Helping Others: – Be a friend – Report abuse