1. Introduction to Counseling Theories (HSV220) Spring, 2013 Jim Wilwerding, M.Div., MA, LMHC, CADC, NCC

2. Counseling What is counseling? What makes counseling “good” or effective? What makes one a “good” or effective counselor?

3. Counseling Theories What is your belief about human nature? What are your assumptions about unconscious/conscious, human development, learning and socialization? What is your understanding about time orientation? What is your belief about the process of change and free will? What is your belief about the role of the helper?

4. The Case of Stan Key themes

5. Personal Characteristics of Effective Counselors They have an identity They respect and appreciate themselves They are open to change They are making choices that shape their lives They feel alive and their choices are life-oriented They are authentic, sincere and honest They have a sense of humor

6. Personal Characteristics of Effective Counselors They make mistakes and are willing to admit them They generally live in the present They appreciate the influence of culture They have a sincere interest in the welfare of others They become deeply involved in their work and derive meaning from it They are able to maintain healthy boundaries

7. Counselors’ Values Values shape our approach to change, persons, etc. Values also may shape our actions/interventions as counselors We must be careful, however to not project our values onto our clients. Values will profoundly influence our choice of theory, goals, etc.

8. Major Issues for Beginning Counselors Anxieties Disclosure Perfectionism Honesty about our limitations Understanding silence Demands from Clients Clients’ commitment Tolerating Ambiguity

9. Major Issues for Beginning Counselors Avoiding losing ourselves in our clients Developing a sense of humor Shared responsibility Avoid Advice-giving Counselor role Techniques Style Self-care