1. What Families Want and Need? Environmental Scan Calgary & Area Families with Young Children UpStart Family Action Team Funding provided by Host Organization Member of

2. Why did we do this scan? To respond to the Family Action Team Mandate – “to increase the understanding of families about evidence-based early childhood development and practice” To add to all that we know about Calgary’s children and their families To inform decisions that would move forward the agenda for families with young children To provide a baseline against which future outcomes can be measured

3. Backgrounder details The F. A. T. committee – authors and disseminators Two ways to complete the survey: Survey Monkey Paper and pencil 598 families: 88 percent urban 64 percent ages 30-39 34 percent born outside Canada 5 percent Aboriginal 60 percent with postsecondary education 36 percent low income Funding – UpStart and FCSS In-kind support – Can Learn

4. Interesting (unexpected) discoveries Loneliness and isolation prevailed across all demographics Finding child care for sick kids is difficult regardless of family income ‘Play” is not seen as being significant in child development Parents were surprised by all the issues they face in the post- natal period Neighbourhoods seem to be safe but this did not necessarily translate into having a neighbour to call on for help There are massive numbers of questions from parents about behaviour issues

5. Help and information support during and after pregnancy – the top 5! During Doctors, 79% Partners, 63% Books, manuals, websites, 53% Pre-natal classes, 46% Other health professionals, 39% Post-partum Doctors, 66% Friends, 59% Books, manuals, 59% Websites, 50% Extended family 49%

6. The biggest worries about bringing that baby home Only 55% were full of joy Nearly everyone was surprised about fatigue For the babies - diapering, colic, breastfeeding, nutrition, safety, bathing, infant crying For parents – unexpected illness, managing self-care, other siblings, isolation, loneliness, no-one to call, partners going back to work, finances

7. Parents and Play – what parents wanted to know more about

8. Calgary EDI / ECMapping Results Physical health and well-being – 20.4% Social competence – 21.79% Emotional maturity – 20.8% Language and thinking skills – 20.4 Communication skills / general knowledge –30.1%

9. What would/could have helped? Extended family nearby “Help from anyone!” Meal preparation, errands, sibling child care, grocery shopping, getting older kids to their activities were all helpful but… Daytime help to take the baby so mum could nap, shower, be herself. ”Someone who took the baby away from me for a few hours so that I was really able to focus on myself…a mental, physical and emotional break “A maid, a chef, and a nanny.”

10. About Relationships… Play and warm, consistent relationships are on disconnect with social/emotional and cognitive development

11. Workplace 46% not able to take time off when a child is sick Only 36% consider their workplace as family friendly

12. Parenting in the Information Age 84 % would prefer just one place to go and seek information 81 % prefer website Other things were also mentioned: personal interactions, newsletters, brochures

13. Recommendations

14. 1. Support for Families Calgary is in a great need of family friendly employment

15. 2. Support for expecting and brand new parents

16. 3.Helping parents to support their children’s development and learning HOW?

17. 4. Supporting the extended family

18. 5. Disseminating information helpful to parents What do parents of young children need to know? The obvious answer is “many things” but with some caveats… In real time and with easy access are the most noticeable caveats We are not ready for paperless yet…!

19. In the days ahead….

20. For further information… The report is available at: www.2000days.ca OR njerkovic@canlearnsociety.ca AND You can duplicate the survey in your own jurisdictions. Imagine the power of having all this data from right across the province!