1. Alcohol Addiction Addiction as a Disease

2. The Disease Model This model looks at alcoholism as a disease for these reasons: o Alcoholism is chronic, o It is progressive and gets worse over time, o The alcoholic cannot overcome the alcoholism alone, o Professional help is needed

3. A Family Disease Not only is the person dependent on alcohol identified as having a primary disease, but the family system became identified as having a “family disease.” When one person in the family is struggling with an addiction, everyone in the family is greatly affected.

4. How the Family is Affected As the chemically dependent person’s behavior becomes more unpredictable, family members may focus more intently on trying to control the dependent person’s unpredictable behavior Many families have a tendency to feel they must protect the alcoholic member by helping them hide their addiction. This leads to dysfunctional family roles and can severely hinder a child’s perception of what’s appropriate when it comes to alcohol.

5. Addiction is a family disease that stresses the family to the breaking point, impacts the stability of the home, the family's unity, mental health, physical health, finances, and overall family dynamics.

6. Alcoholism, includes symptoms such as: Craving—A strong need, or urge, to drink. Loss of control—Not being able to stop drinking once drinking has begun. Physical dependence—Withdrawal symptoms, such as nausea, sweating, shakiness, and anxiety after stopping drinking.Symptoms

7. Tolerance—The need to drink greater amounts of alcohol to feel the same effect. People who are alcoholic often will spend a great deal of their time drinking, making sure they can get alcohol health, finances, and overall family dynamics.

8. Activity Using Music Inhibitions in group therapy can be reduced through allowing group members to express their feelings through sharing music. Assign each group member to bring to group and share at least one CD single that expresses an important aspect of his life or reveals something personal about him that he would like to share with the group. Have each group member share times he has also experienced the sentiment expressed in the music.

9. Recovery As a family disease, those who have been affected by addiction may take years to recover, as they rebuild and stabilize their lives, independent of what the alcohol and drug addicted family member does. Without question, it can seem overwhelming, but it helps to keep in mind that commitment to the recovery process is also a commitment to the overall well being of the whole family.

10. Constructive and active family engagement in the recovery process is essential if the family is to heal from the destructive impact of addiction. To move on in hope, families need a variety of supports, information and skills including the following:

11. 1. End the Isolation and Connect: By joining an education or support group. 2. Education on Addiction and the Family: Understanding how addiction affects both the addicted person and the family is an essential foundation to moving on. 3. Learn Communication Skills: Active addiction destroys family communication. Developing these skills is essential to family recovery.

12. 4. Detachment and Responsibility for Self: Learning to detach with love and focus on assuming responsibility for our own behavior. 5. Stop Old Behaviors: Many of our old ways of coping are ineffective and contribute to the problem not the solution: enabling, denial, blaming and minimizing the problem. 6. Engage the Children: As a parent, depending on ages, you play a critically important role in providing support and protection for the children. But, engaging them in their own recovery is very important.

13. 7. Build on Resilience: Surviving active addiction to alcohol and drugs is never easy. Use the recovery process as a means of building on your personal and family strengths. 8. Engage in Personal and Family Activities: working alone and together to find activities that serve as a source of personal and family fulfillment (ex. volunteering)

14. 9. Understand and Prepare for Relapse: Relapse into old behaviors is as real for family members as it is for those addicted to alcohol and drugs. Family members need to develop strategies for dealing with their own relapse issues and other challenges. In the process of recovery, families are strengthened through increased levels of genuine intimacy and families are better able to cope with life’s challenges. Over time, the discipline of recovery can bring the family together to be the healthiest it has ever been!

15. Today, family recovery is a reality for millions of Americans today, and the hope, help, and healing of family recovery has become the most powerful way to break the intergenerational cycle of alcoholism and addiction in the family.

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