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Human Relationships Love
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Starter (name the artist/s) “All you need is love” “All you need is love” “A million love songs” “A million love songs” “Love will tear us apart” “Love will tear us apart” “Do you love me” “Do you love me” “This love” “This love” “Can you feel the love tonight” “Can you feel the love tonight” “Can’t help falling in love” “Can’t help falling in love” “Endless Love” “Endless Love”
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Lesson Objectives To investigate and understand: Hendrick and Hendrick’s theory of love Hendrick and Hendrick’s theory of love Hatfield’s Passionate & Consumate Love Hatfield’s Passionate & Consumate Love Sternberg’s Triangular theory of love Sternberg’s Triangular theory of love Evaluations Evaluations
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Liking vs. Loving Problems associated with measuring love? Rubin (1970) attachment, caring & intimacy One of the first in this field, developed the ‘scales of liking and loving’ as a way of measuring the qualitatively different complex feelings of love. For example, which one is which? I feel that _____________ is a very stable person. I would do almost anything for _____________.
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Types of love (Lee, 1973) Lundusgame playing love Lundusgame playing love Maniapossessive love Maniapossessive love Pragmalogical love Pragmalogical love Agapeselfless (altruistic) love Agapeselfless (altruistic) love Storagecompanionate love Storagecompanionate love Eroserotic love Eroserotic love
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Sex differences bewteen the different types of love. (Hendrick and Hendrick, 1986) Description Treating love like a competition or game Psychologically trying to tie the partner down Treating love as a rational process Putting the other person first Developing a close meaningful relationship Sexual pleasure Love type Game playing Possessive Logical Altruistic Companionate EroticSexdifferences
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Sex differences bewteen the different types of love. (Hendrick and Hendrick, 1986) Description Treating love like a competition or game Psychologically trying to tie the partner down Treating love as a rational process Putting the other person first Developing a close meaningful relationship Sexual pleasure Love type Game playing Possessive Logical Altruistic Companionate EroticSexdifferences Men more than women Women more than men No difference Women slightly more than men No difference found
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Evaluative point… Females then seem to prioritise on friendships and practical aspects of love. Males seem to prefer playful and emotional love. Females then seem to prioritise on friendships and practical aspects of love. Males seem to prefer playful and emotional love. This would fit neatly with the ‘evolutionary perspective’ - males and females have different expectations of each other This would fit neatly with the ‘evolutionary perspective’ - males and females have different expectations of each other
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Further evaluation Cross cultural research by Hendrick & Hendrick shows that different cultures have different preferences for different types of love. Cross cultural research by Hendrick & Hendrick shows that different cultures have different preferences for different types of love. Who do you think was more likely to favour altruistic and selfless love? Who do you think was more likely to favour altruistic and selfless love? Students from Britain or students from Hong Kong? WHY? These differences for styles of love would appear to be shaped by socialisation. These differences for styles of love would appear to be shaped by socialisation.
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Individualistic and collectivist cultures Western societies appear to be more individualistic. They make their own decisions and take responsibility for their own lives. Western societies appear to be more individualistic. They make their own decisions and take responsibility for their own lives. Eastern societies – collectivist – they regard themselves as part of their family/social gorup and so all their decisions are based on other people. Eastern societies – collectivist – they regard themselves as part of their family/social gorup and so all their decisions are based on other people. i.e. “What does your heart say” vs. “What will other people say”.
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Companionate and Passionate love Hatfield (1988) made a distinction between these two types of love. Hatfield (1988) made a distinction between these two types of love. Companionate Love Passionate/Romantic Love Strong attachment Strong attachment Intense absorption in another Intense absorption in another Strong affection, loyalty, trust & respect Strong affection, loyalty, trust & respect Intense attraction Intense attraction Passion fades Passion fades High levels of arousal High levels of arousal Close friends Close friends Strong emotional responses Strong emotional responses Emotions deepen over time Emotions deepen over time Intense emotions fade over time Intense emotions fade over time
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Evaluative point However not many people fall neatly into each stereotype
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Triangular Theory of Love Sternberg 1986 Passion – the driving force, involves romantic elements and sexual attraction Passion – the driving force, involves romantic elements and sexual attraction Intimacy – the emotions and feelings of closeness and bondedness Intimacy – the emotions and feelings of closeness and bondedness Commitment – thoughts, beliefs and intentions to maintain the relationship Commitment – thoughts, beliefs and intentions to maintain the relationship
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Triangular Theory of Love Positive evaluations: A variety of combinations are possible even when components are absent. A variety of combinations are possible even when components are absent. This model illustrates how different types of love vary over time. This model illustrates how different types of love vary over time. Its components are not based on a all-or-none definition, but rather but can be assessed on a continuum. Its components are not based on a all-or-none definition, but rather but can be assessed on a continuum. Research shows that of all three types, commitment is the best predictor of relationship endurance and satisfaction. (Whitely, 1993). Research shows that of all three types, commitment is the best predictor of relationship endurance and satisfaction. (Whitely, 1993).
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Negative evaluations: Triangular Theory of Love Love is subjective, meaning different things to different people, even within a relationship – which makes it difficult to test empirically Love is subjective, meaning different things to different people, even within a relationship – which makes it difficult to test empirically Difficult to apply the theory to all cultures e.g. with arranged marriages. Difficult to apply the theory to all cultures e.g. with arranged marriages.
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Negative evaluations: Triangular Theory of Love Individual differences -,makes it difficult to test love empirically. Individual differences -,makes it difficult to test love empirically. Academics have questioned whether intimacy is a separate component of the model. Implications - there would no longer be a triangle. Just passion and commitment. Academics have questioned whether intimacy is a separate component of the model. Implications - there would no longer be a triangle. Just passion and commitment.
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Triangular Theory of Love For more points, Compare the theory with other models. Compare the theory with other models. For example…….
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Past exam questions Q.In the context of the triangular theory of love, distinguish between romantic and companionate love. (3 marks) Q.With reference to the triangular theory of love, distinguish between two types of love. (3 marks) Q.Describe and discuss the triangular theory of love. (12 marks)
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In the context of the triangular theory of love, distinguish between romantic and companionate love. (3 marks) [AO1 = 2, AO2 = 1] AO1 Romantic - involves passion (and intimacy) Romantic - involves passion (and intimacy) Companionate - involves commitment (and intimacy) Companionate - involves commitment (and intimacy)AO2 Valid distinction e.g. romantic love involves stronger element of sexual attraction; Valid distinction e.g. romantic love involves stronger element of sexual attraction; romantic love more usually seen earlier in a relationships whereas companionate love more typical in a mature relationship. romantic love more usually seen earlier in a relationships whereas companionate love more typical in a mature relationship.
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With reference to the triangular theory of love, distinguish between two types of love. (3 marks) [AO1 = 2, AO2 = 1] AO1 Sternberg (1986) Consummate, romantic, fatuous, companionate or empty etc… Sternberg (1986) Consummate, romantic, fatuous, companionate or empty etc…AO2 Give examples to support, i.e. for the children (empty), older couple (consumate), newly weds (consumate) Give examples to support, i.e. for the children (empty), older couple (consumate), newly weds (consumate)
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Describe and discuss the triangular theory of love. (12 marks) [ AO1 = 6, AO2 = 6] AO1 Describe triangular theory (Sternberg, 1986) Describe triangular theory (Sternberg, 1986) Multidimensional model where type of love depends on interaction between 3 components - passion, intimacy and commitment and change over time Multidimensional model where type of love depends on interaction between 3 components - passion, intimacy and commitment and change over time Explain few types: consummate, infatuation, liking, empty, romantic, companionate, fatuous. Explain few types: consummate, infatuation, liking, empty, romantic, companionate, fatuous.
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Describe and discuss the triangular theory of love. (12 marks) AO2 Advantages: Flexible with multiple combinations Advantages: Flexible with multiple combinations Should be assessed on a continuum Should be assessed on a continuum Love is subjective – difficult to test - Love means different things to different people, even within a relationship; Love is subjective – difficult to test - Love means different things to different people, even within a relationship; Cultural specificity and relevance to other cultures, eg with arranged marriages. Cultural specificity and relevance to other cultures, eg with arranged marriages. Other studies to compare and contrast Other studies to compare and contrast
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