6. prenatal (Not in Erickson’s staging) Who am I? What am I doing here/Am I safe? Where am I going? After birth How do I get there? (Do I lean on others or myself?)

7. 0-2y/o Basic Trust vs. Mistrust Can I trust the world/anyone? 2-4y/o Autonomy vs. Shame and Doubt Is it okay to be me? Do I have autonomy and choice? 4-5y/o Initiative vs. Guilt Is what I do okay? Is what I do “good” or “bad”? 5-12y/o Industry vs Inferiority How can I make what I do “good” and acceptable?

8. 13-19y/o Identity vs Role Confusion Who am I? Who do I want to be? Who can I be? 20-39y/o Intimacy vs Isolation Can I love/interact with others? 40-64y/o Generativity vs. Stagnation Does my life count? Can I make it count? 65y/o- death Ego integrity vs. Despair Can I make it in the world?

11. What was the main source for knowledge, wisdom and understanding to answer these questions in God’ original design?

18. What are the entry points of attack? All of the above!

19. Replaced Faith (certain of what we hope for and evidence of what is not seen (a SPIRIT matter) with Evidence in the flesh(a matter of the SOUL and FLESH) What we do see, hear, touch, smell, taste dictates what is truth. **The Human Soul usurp information from the Human Spirit** (more on this next time).

20. God says to my spirit I am a child of God. I am to rule over the earth just like Him. I am made in the image of God. I want to be like my Maker and my Father. My life counts because it’s significant to God. I am a child of God. I am suppose to rule over the earth like God but I am not God and don’t have the resources He has. I am a human, a created being. I want to be like my Maker. My life will count more if I did it by myself. He’ll be proud of me. Fleshly Evidence

21. Can I trust? Is it okay to be me? Do I have autonomy and choice? God says He loves me. His character is trustworthy. He is out for my good. It’s okay to be me. It’s okay to ask questions. I have free choice to follow Him. I don’t know if I can trust him. He is withholding something that looks good, feels good and is good for food. The evidence is placed before me that I do not have free choice. Earthly Evidence

25. 4-5y/o Initiative vs. Guilt Is what I do good or bad? 5-12y/o Industry vs Inferiority Can I make what I do good and acceptable?

30. Repetitive use creates a path Conversely, what you don’t use gets replaced.

31. Freud’s Law of Association by Simultaneity

34. Asks: 1.Arousing (exciting, intense) or Neutral ? 2.Good or Bad?

42. External Judgment External Punishment/Consequences Self appraisal: Not good enough Fight mode Vows/Defenses (What I plan to do next time it happens)

43. External Judgment External Punishment/Consequences Self appraisal Vows/Defenses to avoid repetition of what happened

44. External Judgment External Punishment/Consequences Self appraisal: Not good enough Flight mode: I must escape, avoid, run away from future situations.

45. Mom yelled at me for spilling milk. I was wrong for spilling milk. I must avoid making a mistake Friends upset at me for making them lose a game. I am not good at sports To avoid mistakes, I must avoid sports. Teacher upset at me for not understanding a concept. I am not good at academics. To avoid mistakes, I must avoid sports. Boss/Wife upset at me for making a mistake. I am not good at my job/marriage. To avoid mistakes, I must avoid life.

47. I didn’t get 100 on the examDad yelled at me.That was a bad experience. I should know more so I can perform better. I didn’t get 100 on the examDad yelled at me. That was a bad experience. I should know more so I can perform better.

48. The internal judge becomes automatic process. With an internal judge at work, the devil doesn’t need to work very hard. Thrown into pool. Don’t know how to swim. Dad yelled at me.That was a bad experience. Inner vow: I’ll never let anyone get me wet again. Someone throws water on me during a water fight and I got very angry.

49. External Judgment External Punishment/Consequences Self appraisal Vows/Defenses to avoid repetition of what happened Eventually we do not even need a ‘big event’ for the internal judge to be turned on. The internal judge can bear similarities to our greatest critic or abuser.

50. External JudgmentExternal Punishment/ConsequencesSelf appraisal: Not good enoughFreeze mode: I don’t know what to do.

51. Mom yelled at me for spilling milk. I didn’t say anything to defend myself. Next time I must speak up. Mom yelled at me Last time I spoke up that ended up in spanking. I must not speak up. Teacher thought I cheated and I didn’t. I should speak up for myself. Got sent to the principal. Boss thought I made a mistake I didn’t make. They won’t believe me even if I speak up. If I speak up, I might get fired.

52. 4-5y/o Initiative vs. Guilt Is what I do good or bad? 5-12y/o Industry vs Inferiority Can I make what I do good and acceptable? Yes!! I am good at what I do. I am an over achiever !!! No!! Everything I do sucks.

54. NO!!

55. Solutions expert. Motivates self positively. Believes and hopes. One who is after God’s heart and carries His wisdom. Judge/ Enforcer to prevent mistakes, shame, guilt and pain. Motivates change by punishing.

58. Mom yelled at me for spilling milk. I didn’t say anything to defend myself. Next time I must speak up. Mom yelled at me Last time I spoke up that ended up in spanking. I must not speak up. Teacher thought I cheated and I didn’t. I should speak up for myself. Got sent to the principal. Boss thought I made a mistake I didn’t make. They won’t believe me even if I speak up. If I speak up, I might get fired.

59. Blessing the Guardian

60. Group sharing

61. Emmanuel Method