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1 Nostalgia Why don't relationships last as long as we'd like?
Is a successful life one in which satisfaction outweighs disappointment? Why do we so often regard the past as “the good times”?

2 From the album “Heads and Tales” Elektra 75023 ©1972
“Taxi” by Harry Chapin From the album “Heads and Tales” Elektra ©1972 It was raining hard in 'Frisco, I needed one more fare to make my night. A lady up ahead waved to flag me down, She got in at the light. Oh, where you going to, my lady blue, It's a shame you ruined your gown in the rain. She just looked out the window, and said "Sixteen Parkside Lane.” Something about her was familiar I could swear I'd seen her face before, But she said, "I'm sure you're mistaken," And she didn't say anything more. It took a while, but she looked in the mirror, And she glanced at the license for my name. A smile seemed to come to her slowly, It was a sad smile, just the same. And she said, "How are you Harry?" I said, "How are you Sue? Through the too many miles and the too little smiles I still remember you." It was somewhere in a fairy tale, I used to take her home in my car. We learned about love in the back of the Dodge, The lesson hadn't gone too far. You see, she was gonna be an actress, And I was gonna learn to fly. She took off to find the footlights, And I took off to find the sky. Oh, I've got something inside me, To drive a princess blind. There's a wild man, wizard, He's hiding in me, illuminating my mind. Not what my life's about, Cause I've been letting my outside tide me, Over 'till my time, runs out.

3 Well another man might have been angry,
And another man might have been hurt, But another man never would have let her go... I stashed the bill in my shirt. And she walked away in silence, It's strange, how you never know, But we'd both gotten what we'd asked for, Such a long, long time ago. You see, she was gonna be an actress And I was gonna learn to fly. She took off to find the footlights, And I took off for the sky. And here, she's acting happy, Inside her handsome home. And me, I'm flying in my taxi, Taking tips, and getting stoned, I go flying so high, when I'm stoned. Baby's so high that she's skying, Yes she's flying, afraid to fall. I'll tell you why baby's crying, Cause she's dying, aren't we all. There was not much more for us to talk about, Whatever we had once was gone. So I turned my cab into the driveway, Past the gate and the fine trimmed lawns. And she said we must get together, But I knew it'd never be arranged. And she handed me twenty dollars, For a two fifty fare, she said "Harry, keep the change."

4 Met my old lover in the grocery store,
The snow was falling Christmas Eve. I stole behind her in the frozen foods, And I touched her on the sleeve. She didn't recognize the face at first, But then her eyes flew open wide. She went to hug me and she spilled her purse, And we laughed until we cried. We took her groceries to the checkout stand, The food was totalled up and bagged. We stood there lost in our embarrassment, As the conversation dragged. We went to have ourselves a drink or two, But couldn't find an open bar. We bought a six-pack at the liquor store, And we drank it in her car. We drank a toast to innocence, We drank a toast to now. And tried to reach beyond the emptiness, But neither one knew how. She said she'd married her an architect, Who kept her warm and safe and dry, She would have liked to say she loved the man, But she didn't like to lie. “Same Old Lang Syne” by Dan Fogelberg From the album “The Innocent Age” Epic KE ©1981 I said the years had been a friend to her, And that her eyes were still as blue. But in those eyes I wasn't sure if I saw, Doubt or gratitude. She said she saw me in the record stores, And that I must be doing well. I said the audience was heavenly, But the traveling was hell. We drank a toast to innocence, We drank a toast to now. And tried to reach beyond the emptiness, But neither one knew how. We drank a toast to time. Reliving in our eloquence, Another 'auld lang syne'...... The beer was empty and our tongues were tired, And running out of things to say. She gave a kiss to me as I got out, And I watched her drive away. Just for a moment I was back at school, And felt that old familiar pain And as I turned to make my way back home, The snow turned into rain .

5 I woke up this morning Now I understand What it means to give your life To just one man Afraid of feeling nothing No bees or butterflies My head is full of voices And my house is full of lies This is home, home And this is home, home This is home I found your standing there When I was seventeen Now I'm thirty-two And I can't remember what I'd seen in you I made a promise Said it everyday Now I'm reading romance novels And I'm dreaming of yesterday “Home” by Sheryl Crow From the album “Sheryl Crow” A&M ©1996 I'd like to see the Riviera And slowdance underneath the stars I'd like to watch the sun come up In a stranger's arms This is home, home And this is home, home This is home I'm going crazy A little everyday. And everything I wanted Is now driving me away I woke this morning To the sound of breaking hearts Mine is full of questions And it's tearing yours apart...

6 “Blood on the Bricks” by Iron City Houserockers
Written by Joe Grushecky From the album “Blood on the Bricks” MCA 5252 ©1981 Hanging on a thread, fighting for a chance,  Oh, those things they said, were never meant to last. On a stretch of town right off the strip, late one night He wrote her name in blood on the bricks. He was a poor young tough from an old coal town, Who listened for the night, and lived for the sounds She was a dark-haired Italian in tight blue jeans Together they swore to live out all their dreams As they laid there in each other's arms Somewhere in the background they'd hear that song The one they danced to the night they met. The Drifters were singing "Up On The Roof",  And they brought it all home in just two minutes of truth Some things aren't that easy Some things just aren't easy to forget Like the blood on the bricks. He came home from his job one night, he'd had a little too much to drink. Got her out of bed and made her walk down to the wall down on East Carson Street. He cut his vein with a knife and the blood flowed out like a river He rubbed it on his hands and wrote on the wall "JJ + Little Girl Baby Forever"

7 She left the next morning. She was tired of the games they'd play,
Didn't want to be there when he threw his life away. Now the radio is his only savior on a lonely Sunday night He walks the railroad tracks, just before daylight And as he walked he had the radio on All-night DJ played his favorite song the one they danced to the night they met. He always said he could deliver the proof But he was never brave enough to face the truth Some things aren't that easy Some things just aren't that easy to forget Like the blood on the bricks He wrote their name He wrote their name in blood on the bricks

8 “The Boys of Summer” by Don Henley
Nobody on the road Nobody on the beach I feel it in the air The summer's out of reach Empty lake, empty streets The sun goes down alone I'm drivin' by your house Though I know you're not at home But I can see you- Your brown skin shinin' in the sun You got your hair combed back and your sunglasses on, baby And I can tell you my love for you will still be strong After the boys of summer have gone I never will forget those nights I wonder if it was a dream Remember how you made me crazy? Remember how I made you scream Now I don't understand what happened to our love But babe, I'm gonna get you back I'm gonna show you what I'm made of I can see you- I see you walkin' real slow and you're smilin' at everyone I can tell you my love for you will still be strong “The Boys of Summer” by Don Henley Written by Don Henley and Mike Campbell From the album “Building the Perfect Beast” Geffen GHS ©1984

9 Out on the road today, I saw a DEADHEAD sticker on a Cadillac
A little voice Inside my head said, "Don't look back. You can never look back." I thought I knew what love was What did I know? Those days are gone forever I should just let them go but- I can see you- Your brown skin shinin' in the sun You got that top pulled down and that radio on, baby And I can tell you my love for you will still be strong After the boys of summer have gone You got that hair slicked back and those Wayfarers on, baby I can tell you my love for you will still be strong

10 “Mandolin Rain” by Bruce and John Hornsby
From the album “The Way It Is” RCA PL89901 ©1986 The song came and went Like the times that we spent Hiding out from the rain under the carnival tent I laughed and she'd smile It would last for awhile You don't know what you got till you lose it all again Listen to the mandolin rain Listen to the music on the lake Listen to my heart break every time she runs away Listen to the banjo wind A sad song drifting low Listen to the tears roll Down my face as she turns to go A cool evening dance Listening to the bluegrass band takes the chill From the air till they play the last song I'll do my time Keeping you off my mind but there's moments That I find, I'm not feeling so strong

11 Running down by the lakeshore
She did love the sound of a summer storm It played on the lake like a mandolin Now it's washing her away again Listen to the mandolin rain Listen to the music on the lake Listen to my heart break every time she runs away Listen to the banjo wind A sad song drifting low Listen to the tears roll Down my face as she turns to go The boat's steaming in I watch the sidewheel spin and I Think about her when I hear that whistle blow I can't change my mind I knew all the time that she'd go But that's a choice I made long ago

12 “Pictures of You” by The Cure Written by Robert Smith
I've been looking so long at these pictures of you that I almost believe that they're real I've been living so long with my pictures of you that I almost believe that the pictures are all I can feel Remembering you standing quiet in the rain as I ran to your heart to be near and we kissed as the sky fell in holding you close how I always held close in your fear remembering you running soft through the night you were bigger brighter and whiter than snow and screamed at the make-believe screamed at the sky and you finally found all your courage to let it all go Remembering you falling into my arms crying for the death of you heart you were stone white so delicate so lost in the cold you were always so lost in the dark remembering you how you used to be slow drowned you were angels so much more than everything oh hold for the last time then slip away quietly open my eyes but I never see anything “Pictures of You” by The Cure Written by Robert Smith From the album “Disintegration” Elektra ©1989 If only I'd thought of the right words I could have held onto your heart if only I'd thought of the right words I wouldn't be breaking apart all my pictures of you Looking so long at these pictures of you but I never hold onto your heart looking so long for the words to be true but always just breaking apart my pictures of you There is nothing in the world that I ever wanted more than to feel you deep in my heart There was nothing in the world that I ever wanted more than to never feel the breaking apart of my pictures of you

13 THE FITTED SHIRT WHEN I WAS STILL GROWING UP AND DAD HEAD OFF TO WORK HE PUT COAT AND TIE ON OVER FITTED SHIRT NOTHING ELSE WILL FIT RIGHT OR SEEMS SO DIRECTLY APPLIED THAN FITTED SHIRT HUNG ON ME FITTED SHIRT ALRIGHT I LONG FOR THE DAYS THEY USED TO SAY MA’AM AND YES SIR FOR NOW I’M GOING TO FIND BUTTONS FOR MY DAD’S OLD USED SHIRT FITTED SHIRT “The Fitted Shirt” by Spoon Written by Britt Daniel From the album “Girls Can Tell” Merge MRG195 ©2001 BEEN LOOKING SO LONG NOW AND NO ONE’S SEEN AND NO ONE HEARD BUT WHEN I GO OUT TONIGHT I’M GOING TO PUT ON A FITTED SHIRT ONE DAY IT’LL TAKE AND THEY’LL START TO MAKE SHIRTS THAT FIT RIGHT TIL THEN I SUPPOSE I STILL GOT DAD’S CLOTHES AND THAT’S ALRIGHT FITTED SHIRT

14 “At Seventeen” by Janis Ian
From the album “Between the Lines” Columbia PC ©1975 I learned the truth at seventeen That love was meant for beauty queens and high school girls with clear skinned smiles who married young and then retired The valentines I never knew The Friday night charades of youth were spent on one more beautiful At seventeen I learned the truth And those of us with ravaged faces lacking in the social graces desperately remained at home inventing lovers on the phone who called to say – come dance with me and murmured vague obscenities It isn't all it seems at seventeen A brown eyed girl in hand me downs whose name I never could pronounce said – Pity please the ones who serve They only get what they deserve The rich relationed hometown queen marries into what she needs with a guarantee of company and haven for the elderly Remember those who win the game lose the love they sought to gain in debentures of quality and dubious integrity Their small-town eyes will gape at you in dull surprise when payment due exceeds accounts received at seventeen To those of us who knew the pain of valentines that never came and those whose names were never called when choosing sides for basketball It was long ago and far away The world was younger than today when dreams were all they gave for free to ugly duckling girls like me We all play the game, and when we dare we cheat ourselves at solitaire Inventing lovers on the phone Repenting other lives unknown that call and say – Come dance with me and murmur vague obscenities at ugly girls like me, at seventeen

15 “Alma Mater” by Alice Cooper Written by Neil Smith
Rain is falling Down my cheek Searching for the sea Tomorrow, like the rain I'll be back home again I watch The bus As it pulls out of view Someday like that bus I will be leavin too But you know It breaks my heart To leave you Camelback My high school And now Alone Cryin in my beer 'Cause old friends said Goodbye, I guess I'll be leavin too Cortez I'll miss you “Alma Mater” by Alice Cooper Written by Neil Smith From the album “School's Out” Warner Bros. BS-2623 ©1972 Yes I will You know I will Well so long Everybody I hope that I would see you again Goodbye I finally grew up They finally let me out of school Hey, remember the time - 'member the time We took that snake And put down little Betsy's dresss? Now I don't think Miss Axelrod Was much impressed No I don't think Miss Axelrod Well I don't think Miss Axelrod

16 Oh, goodbye Everybody I hope that I would see you again So long How do you like that They finally let me out of school Goodbye Ah, I wanna get out of here They let me out of school How 'bout that, uh? Hey, goodbye, guys Maybe I'll see - Maybe I'll see you around some time, uh? 'Ey, don't make a stranger of yourself, uh? Remember the Coop, uh? May - I ho - I hope - you don't forget me or nothin

17 “It's So Hard to Say Goodbye to Yesterday” by Boyz II Men
Written by Freddie Person and Christine Yarian From the album “CooleyHighHrmony” Motown MOTD-630 ©1991 How do I say goodbye to what we had? The good times that made us laugh Outweigh the bad. I thought we'd get to see forever But forever's gone away It's so hard to say goodbye to yesterday. I don't know where this road Is going to lead All I know is where we've been And what we've been through. If we get to see tomorrow I hope it's worth all the wait And I'll take with me the memories To be my sunshine after the rain

18 “Glory Days” by Bruce Springsteen From the album “Born in the U.S.A.”
Columbia QC ©1984 I had a friend was a big baseball player back in high school He could throw that speedball by you Make you look like a fool boy Saw him the other night at this roadside bar I was walking in, he was walking out We went back inside sat down had a few drinks but all he kept talking about was Glory days well they'll pass you by Glory days in the wink of a young girl's eye Glory days, glory days Well there's a girl that lives up the block back in school she could turn all the boy's heads Sometimes on a Friday I'll stop by and have a few drinks after she put her kids to bed Her and her husband Bobby well they split up I guess it's two years gone by now We just sit around talking about the old times, she says when she feels like crying she starts laughing thinking about

19 Now I think I'm going down to the well tonight
and I'm going to drink till I get my fill And I hope when I get old I don't sit around thinking about it but I probably will Yeah, just sitting back trying to recapture a little of the glory of, well time slips away and leaves you with nothing mister but boring stories of glory days Glory days well they'll pass you by Glory days in the wink of a young girl's eye Glory days, glory days

20 “I Wish” by Stevie Wonder From the album “Songs in the Key of Life”
Tamla T ©1976 Looking back on when I Was a little nappy headed boy Then my only worry Was for Christmas what would be my toy Even though we sometimes Would not get a thing We were happy with the Joy the day would bring Sneaking out the back door To hang out with those hoodlum friends of mine Greeted at the back door With boy thought I told you not to go outside, Tryin’ your best to bring the Water to your eyes Thinkin’ it might stop her From whoopin’ your behind I wish those days could come back once more Why did those days ever have to go Cause I love them so

21 Brother says he’s tellin’
’bout you playin’ doctor with that girl Just don’t tell I’ll give you Anything you want in this whole wide world Mama gives you money for Sunday school You trade yours for candy after church is through Smokin’ cigarettes and writing something nasty on the wall (you nasty boy) Teacher sends you to the principal’s office down the wall You grow up and learn that kinda thing ain’t right But while you were doin’it-it sure felt outta sight I wish those days could come back once more Why did those days ever have to go

22 I got my first real six-string
Bought it at the five-and-dime Played it till my fingers bled was the summer of '69 Me and some guys from school Had a band and we tried real hard Jimmy quit and Julie got married I shoulda known we'd never get far Oh when I look back now The summer seemed to last forever And if I had the choice Yeah - I'd always wanna be there Those were the best days of my life Ain't no use in complainin' When you got a job to do Spent my evenin's down at the drive-in And that's when I met you yeah! Standin' on your mama's porch You told me that you'd wait forever Oh and when you held my hand I knew that it was now or never Back in the summer of '69 ohhh yeah the summer of 69 “Summer of '69” by Bryan Adams and Jim Vallance From the album “Reckless” A&M SP-5013 ©1984 Man we were killin' time We were young and reckless We needed to unwind I guess nothin' can last forever - forever, no And now the times are changin' Look at everything that's come and gone Sometimes when I play that old six-string I think about you wonder what went wrong Standin' on your mama's porch You told me it would last forever Oh when you held my hand I knew that it was now or never Those were the best days of my life Back in the summer of '69 it was the summer the summer of 69 ohhhh yeah me and my band back in '69

23 “Scenes from an Italian Restaurant” by Billy Joel
A bottle of white, a bottle of red Perhaps a bottle of rose instead We'll get a table near the street In our old familiar place You and I--face to face A bottle of red, a bottle of white It all depends on your appetite I'll meet you any time you want In our Italian Restaurant. Things are okay with me these days Got a good job, got a good office Got a new wife, got a new life And the family's fine We lost touch long ago You lost weight I did not know You could ever look so good after So much time. I remember those days hanging out At the village green Engineer boots, leather jackets And tight blue jeans Drop a dime in the box play the Song about New Orleans Cold beer, hot lights My sweet romantic teenage nights “Scenes from an Italian Restaurant” by Billy Joel From the album “The Stranger” Columbia ©1979 Brenda and Eddie were the popular steadies And the king and the queen of the prom Riding around with the car top down and the radio on Nobody looked any finer Or was more of a hit at the Parkway Diner We never knew we could want more than that out of life Surely Brenda and Eddie would always know how to survive. Brenda and Eddie were still going steady in the summer of '75 When they decided the marriage would be at the end of July Everyone said they were crazy "Brenda you know you're much too lazy Eddie could never afford to live that kind of life." But there we were wavin' Brenda and Eddie goodbye. They got an apartment with deep pile carpet And a couple of paintings from Sears A big waterbed that they bought with the bread They had saved for a couple of years They started to fight when the money got tight And they just didn't count on the tears.

24 They lived for a while in a very nice style But it's always the same in the end They got a divorce as a matter of course And they parted the closest of friends Then the king and the queen went back to the green But you can never go back there again. Brenda and Eddie had had it already By the summer of '75 From the high to the low To the end of the show For the rest of their lives They couldn't go back to the greasers The best they could do was pick up the pieces We always knew they would both find a way to get by That's all I heard about Brenda and Eddie Can't tell you more than I told you already And here we are wavin' Brenda and Eddie goodbye. A bottle of red, and bottle of white Whatever kind of mood you're in tonight I'll meet you anytime you want In our Italian Restaurant.


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