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3. CONTROL Placater Blamer DistracterRationalizer

4. ThoughtThought EmotionsEmotions Relationships Non-Relational CONTROL Placater Blamer DistracterRationalizer

5. BlamerPlacaterRationalizerDistracterDRIVERSAngerAnxietyAbsentShame

6. LOVE LOVE Descriptive Non-Controlling PeacefulTruthful

9. Ephesians 4:15 While continually speaking the truth...

10. Ephesians 4:15 While continually speaking the truth in Love... {for the other person’s benefit}

13. Colossians 3:12 “Clothe yourselves, as the chosen of God, holy and permanently loved with intestines of tender mercies”

14. Colossians 3:12 “Clothe yourselves, as the chosen of God, holy and permanently loved with responses of tender mercies”

15. God’s Anger Management Psalm 30:5 For His anger is but for a moment, His favor is for a lifetime; Weeping may last for the night, But a shout of joy comes in the morning.

16. Unhealthy Communication Leaves People in the Dark

17. How To Be Biblically Angry Share the feelings Share the thoughts For the other person’s benefit Trusting God

18. Hurts Are Important Hurts reflect your deepest values! They define who you are!

19. RationalizerIGNORE IGNO IIGGNNOOREREIIGGNNOORERE IGNORE

20. IGNO IIGGNNOOREREIIGGNNOORERE IGNORE

21. IGNORE

22. Withdrawn Condescends To deal with people in a patronizingly superior manner

23. Distracter In Pain Wretchedness TRASH TRASH TRASH

24. PlacaterDefenseless Depression STUFF STUFF STUFF

25. BlamerSTUFF STUFF STUFF STUFF EXPLODE

27.  Don’t let it lead to sin!  Don’t wake up with it!  Don’t give devil a foothold!  Don’t use it to justify wrong!  Don’t speak inappropriately!  Don’t hurt the Holy Spirit!  Don’t get bitter! Ephesians 4:26 - 29

28. Get Angry Enough To Become ACTIVE! (28) To EDIFY! (29b) Ephesians 4:26 - 29

29. The Spirit of Forgiveness Eph. 4:30 Stop grieving the Spirit 4:31 Let all bitterness, wrath.. be put away from you, 4:32 Be kind, tender hearted, forgiving Spirit is Present PERMANENTLY Spirit takes away HATE We cooperate by FORGIVENESS

30. Don’t Blow Snow Communicate What you Feel What you Think And Forgive

31. Don’t Hang Onto Hurt Learn the art of forgiving Allow the Holy Spirit to work Eph. 4:30-31 Just like GOD 4:32

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