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1 Five Positions of Control
Diane Gossen

2 Five Positions of Control
Punisher Guilter Buddy Monitor Manager

3 Punisher

4 Guilter

5 Buddy

6 Monitor

7 Manager

8 WHO WOULD SAY….? Work with a partner or in a small group. Think about who would say the following questions and statements. PUNISHER GUILTER BUDDY MONITOR MANAGER Did you break your promise? Shame on you. You will never be a success in life. Come on. Please do it. You’ll have a pizza party if you fill the jar. Why didn’t you finish it? It makes me sad. You’re so stupid. How can you make this right with her? You’ll get free time if you are done first. What does it say about you if you fix it? I thought you were my friend.

9 ACADEMY AWARDS 1. Choose a scenario to act out from home, school, coaching, etc. (2 or 3 sentences). This is not a three act play. Have fun - you have 10 minutes. 2. Play it five different ways: punisher, guilter, buddy, monitor, manager. 3. Watch for contamination of the words of one position and the tone or position of another (eg. asking “What do we believe” in a harsh voice). 4. Academy Awards: Mix up the positions and act each out for another group to see if they can guess it.

10 Five Positions of Control
PUNISHER GUILTER BUDDY MONITOR MANAGER Teacher Does Yells and Points Preaches and Shoulds” Makes excuses for them Counts and Measures Asks questions Says If you don’t do it I’ll... You should have known better Do it for me What’s the rule? What do we believe? Legacy Rebel Blame Hide Deny Lie Dependency Conformity Strengthen Student I don’t care I’m sorry I thought you were my friend How high, how far? What can I do to fix it? Outcome Repeat offense Low self- esteem Weakness Consequence oriented Self restitution Avoid Pain Reward from Others Respecting E X T R I N S I C M O T I V A T I O N INTRINSIC MOTIVATION


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