1. By: Mr. Menjivar

2. Advisory Development Table of Contents DateTitle Page # 08/15/11Advisory Training1 08/19/11Who are the Copilots in My Life?2 08/23/11Oral History3 08/26/11This is how we do school here4 08/30/11Mapping Your Personal Pathway5 09/06/11What does success mean to me?6 09/13/11Who Am I?7 09/20/11What’s My Impact8 09/27/11Individual Learning Plan9 10/03/11Bullying10 10/18/11Chain Reaction11 10/26/11Halloween Story12 11/01/11Communication13

3. Communication 13R 13L 11/01/11 Communication Reflection 11/01/11 Observe, Question, Comment Quick Write:

4.  Write down the last conflict you had with someone. Clarify how the conflict ended. How could you have communicated better to resolve the conflict.

5. Communication 13R 13L 11/01/11 Communication Reflection 11/01/11 Observe, Question, Comment Quick Write: Purpose:

6.  Students will see the importance of effectively communicating their needs and feelings with others.

7. Communication 13R 13L 11/01/11 Communication Reflection 11/01/11 Observe, Question, Comment Quick Write: Purpose: Learning Goal:

8.  Students will learn active listening, expressing feelings using “I” statements, and effectively resisting unhealthy behavior are the elements of positive communication.

9. Communication 13R 13L 11/01/11 Communication Reflection 11/01/11 Observe, Question, Comment Quick Write: Purpose: Learning Goal: Notes/Lecture:

10.  Listen closely  Eye contact  No interrupting

11.  “I feel angry when people do not wash their hands”  “You’re a jerk!”

12.  With a partner, you will do a listening exercise. You will share with your partner how your Halloween went. While one speaks, the other will listen using eye contact and not interrupting. Then switch rolls.

13. Communication 13R 13L 11/01/11 Communication Reflection 11/01/11 Observe, Question, Comment Quick Write: Purpose: Learning Goal: Notes/Lecture: Reflection:

14. 1) What is one time that you did not communicate well with someone? 2) Why did you not communicate well? 3) Have you actively listened when talking with someone? What happened? 4) Have you shared strong feelings (especially anger) in appropriate ways? (using “I” and “me” statements) 5) What are some ways you have told someone “No” in appropriate ways