1. Submitted by Kerri WardHead Resident AdvisorThompson Rivers University

2. Hes just not that not that into you if hes not asking you out. An Excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid of ruining the friendship. Dont get tricked into asking him out. If he likes you, hell do the asking. If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will. Meeting at the bar or a friends house IS NOT A DATE Men dont forget how much they like you, So put down the phone.

3. You are good enough to be asked out!

4. Hes just not that into you if hes not calling you. If hes not calling you, its because youre not on his mind. Dont be with someone who doesnt do what they say theyre going to do. Busy is another word for jerk. Jerk is another word for the guy your dating thats not calling.

5. YOU DESERVE A PHONE CALL

6. Hes just not that into you if hes not dating you. Guys tell you how they feel even if you refuse to believe or listen to them. Better than nothing is not good enough for you. If you dont know where the relationship is going, its okay to pull over and ask. Murky? Not good.

7. Theres a guy out there who will want to tell everyone that hes your boyfriend. Quit goofing around and go find him.

8. Hes just not that into you if he only wants to see you when hes drunk. It doesnt count unless he says it when hes sober. Drinking and drug use is not a path to ones inner most feelings. If he only wants to see you, talk to, have sex with you, etc., when hes inebriated, it aint love-its sport. Bad boys are actually bad.

9. You deserve to be with someone who doesnt have to get loaded to be around you.

10. Hes just not that into you if hes breaking up with you. You cant talk your way out of a breakup. It is not up for discussion. A breakup is a definitive action, not a democratic one. Breakup sex still means your broken up. He doesnt need to be reminded that youre great. He can take care of his own dinner. Classy doesnt break into his facebook account.

11. Theres a guy out there whos going to really happy that you didnt get back together with your crappy ex-boyfriend.

12. This is what the Book Suggests: Do not go out with a man who hasnt asked you out first. Do not go out with a guy that keeps you waiting by the phone. Do not date a guy who isnt sure he wants to date you. Do not date a guy who drinks or does drugs to an extent that you are uncomfortable with. Do not date a guy who is married. Do not date a guy who is afraid to talk about your future.