2. what a girl wants…

3. We are ___________ to be in a relationship with one another. DESIGNED The LORD God said: "It is not good for the man to be alone." Genesis 2:18

4. We are designed with ______________ DIFFERENCES MALEMALEFEMALEFEMALE - DOMESTIC SUPPORT - HONESTY AND OPENNESS - ADMIRATION AND RESPECT - FAMILY COMMITMENT - SEX - AFFECTION - RECREATION - CONVERSATION - ATTRACTIVENESS OF SPOUSE - FINANCIAL SUPPORT

5. So God created people in his own image; God patterned them after himself; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27

6. “So Jesus left the Judean countryside and went back to Galilee. To get there, he had to pass through Samaria. He came into Sychar, a Samaritan village. Jacob's well was still there. Jesus, worn out by the trip, sat down at the well. It was noon. A woman, a Samaritan, came to draw water. Jesus said, "Would you give me a drink of water?" The Samaritan woman, taken aback, asked, "How come you, a Jew, are asking me, a Samaritan woman, for a drink?" John 4

7. Jesus shows __________ RESPECT

8. Jesus replied, "If you only knew the gift God has for you and who I am, you would ask me, and I would give you living water." "Please sir,” the woman said,“give me some of that water! Then I'll never be thirsty again, and I won't have to come here to haul water." Go and get your husband," Jesus told her. "I don't have a husband," the woman replied. Jesus said, "You're right! You don't have a husband - for you have had 5 husbands, and you aren't even married to the man you're living with now." Jesus replied, "If you only knew the gift God has for you and who I am, you would ask me, and I would give you living water." "Please sir,” the woman said,“give me some of that water! Then I'll never be thirsty again, and I won't have to come here to haul water." Go and get your husband," Jesus told her. "I don't have a husband," the woman replied. Jesus said, "You're right! You don't have a husband - for you have had 5 husbands, and you aren't even married to the man you're living with now." John 4:10-18

9. Jesus wants to _______ her KNOW

10. "Sir," the woman said, "you must be a prophet… "I know the Messiah will come—the one who is called Christ. When he comes, he will explain everything to us." Then Jesus told her, "I am the Messiah!" Just then his disciples arrived. They were astonished to find him talking to a woman, but none of them asked him why he was doing it or what they had been discussing. The woman left her water jar beside the well and went back to the village and told everyone, "Come and meet a man who told me everything I ever did! Can this be the Messiah?"

11. Jesus totally ____________ ACCEPTS

12. how you ______ LOOK world’s way (lies) == how you are accepted how you ___________ PERFORM == how you are accepted

13. God’s way God has chosen YOU and made YOU his holy people. He loves you. Colossians 3:12 you are ___________ as you are ACCEPTED

14. God’s way Lord, you have examined me and know all about me. I praise you because you made me in an amazing and wonderful way. Psalms 139:1;14 you are __________ KNOWN

15. God’s way Show respect for all people: Love the brothers and sisters of God's family, respect God [as he respects you]. 1 Peter 2:17 you are ____________ RESPECTED