1. How to Use Your Audience Response Keypad A.Questions will be displayed along with the possible answers B.As soon as the question is displayed, you may press and release the button that best represents your answer C.Your last answer will be recorded D.There is no need to press “GO” or “?” E.Please leave the keypad in your chair’s cup holder before you leave for the day

2. How are you feeling this morning after last night? A.I already feel encouraged and am excited about today. B.I feel hungry to learn. C.I feel nervous – I’m not sure what to expect today. D.I’m tired – it’s early and I’m still waiting for my Starbucks to kick in.

3. How often would you say that you struggle with pressure to present a certain image that is difficult to maintain all the time? A.100 % of the time B.75 % of the time C.50 % of the time D.25 % of the time

4. I struggle with comparing myself to others. A.Often B.Sometimes C.Rarely D.Never

5. I know the Bible says that God loves me. A.But I often feel that God is mad at me. B.But I often feel that God is disappointed in me. C.But I’m not sure God is really interested in the details of my life. D.I learn to trust in His love a little more every day and it helps me to feel at peace even during challenging situations.

6. When I walk into a room with people I don’t know or a new situation: A.I feel confident and excited about the possibilities for new relationships. B.I am somewhat nervous but force myself to be outgoing. C.I don’t know what to say and feel insecure, so I most often hang back unless someone approaches me directly. D.I avoid contact with others because I wish I didn’t have to be there at all. E.A combination of the above.

7. Which of the following best describes you? A.I often worry about others’ opinions which influence my mood and the choices I make. B.I am often critical of others inwardly, but am harshest on myself. C.I often think that everyone has their act together more than me and I feel that others know I’m a failure. D.I am learning to think of others first and show love to them instead of focusing on what they think of me.

8. The greatest longing in my heart regarding friendship is: A.To have someone to “do life” with – share meals, have coffee, see movies, go shopping, work out, have play dates with kids, etc. B.To be able to share my relationship/journey with God with a companion who will encourage me and pray for me. C.To be able to share my heart and my secrets without fear of rejection. D.To know that I’m not alone and that someone else understands me.

9. For single women: Which statement best describes the way you feel about being single? A.I see myself as available more than single – I like where I am and I am waiting on God’s plan. B.I sometimes think that I am single because I don’t deserve a life mate. C.I sometimes think that I am single because I’ve made mistakes in the past that will keep me from ever having a commited love relationship. D.I need to fix several things in my life first, and then when I have it all together, maybe God will bring someone my way. E.I am happily single. I don’t feel discontent, but enjoy my life and relationships the way they are.

10. I feel that my couple friends have left me behind unintentionally, which is sometimes awkward and isolating. A.Often B.Sometimes C.Rarely D.Never

11. For married women: Which statement best describes your marriage lately? A.Growing – not perfect, but moving in a great direction together. B.Dealing with some hard issues, but working on them together. C.Really struggling – and I feel alone. D.Teetering on the brink of divorce – we need help. E.In the process of divorce currently.

12. How would you describe your love life? A.I am very confident as a lover B.I enjoy my love life but wish I could be more C.I am completely intimidated and feel like a failure

13. For moms: A.Stay at home moms B.Working moms

14. Are you the primary caregiver for a special needs child? A.Yes B.No

15. Which best describes how you feel about motherhood? A.I almost always love being a mom – there are many challenges, but I love this season with my kids. B.I love my family, but sometimes feel like I am missing out on so much – which makes me feel more guilty. C.I am sorry to say it, but honestly, I sometimes resent my children. D.It really changes day by day – moment by moment. Bottom line, I am so thankful to be a mom no matter how hard it is!

16. When facing difficult parenting challenges: A.Most of the time I have a plan for parenting my kids that works day to day. B.I most often fall back on the way my parents raised me, but I’m not sure it’s best. C.I have no training or example to follow in motherhood. I just do the best I can and hope it’s enough.

17. I experience times when I initially have absolutely no idea how to handle a situation with my child/children. A.Often B.Sometimes C.Rarely D.Never

18. When I struggle emotionally, my greatest battle is with: A.Fear B.Anger C.Anxiety D.Depression

19. I believe if anyone knew this about me everything would change: A.I am a victim of abuse. B.My marriage is a wreck. C.I sometimes struggle with homosexuality. D.My thought life is often prideful and critical – I would be ashamed for others to hear my thoughts. E.I mistreat my children. F.The me that comes to church is a total act – I’m a completely different person behind closed doors. G.I’m having major doubts about God – I’m hanging by a thread of faith.

20. Life with Jesus is like a long journey of becoming – becoming more intimate with Him and becoming more like Him. Where would you say that you are on this journey? A.I’m not sure that I am on that journey at all right now. B.I’m ready to start my journey with Jesus. C.I haven’t been on the journey long, but my life is already changing – I want to learn more about how to keep going! D.I’ve been traveling with Jesus for a long time, and every step gets sweeter. E.I’ve had a relationship with Jesus for a long time, but something is missing. I don’t really feel like I know Him intimately, but I would like to.

21. I believe that God can work in my life, no matter what my limitations and do something amazing for my good and His glory. A.Yes B.I’m getting there C.I’m really struggling to believe this.

22. Are you here? 20 A.Yes B.No