1. Mind Your Business by Randy Elrod #AGMWholebrain

2. The Master and His Emissary by Dr. Iain McGilchrist The Mindful Brain by Daniel J. Siegel

7. C.O.A.L.

8. 1.) Curiosity

9. Half-Brained Thinking “Curiosity Killed The Cat...”

10. “It Is A Miracle That Curiosity Survives Formal Education.” -Albert Einstein

11. The So How: Free Thinking

12. Two Diagnostic Questions Internal/External not Left/Right

13. 1. (Internal) How Can I Be More Curious About Myself?

14. 2. (External) How Can I Be More Curious About My World?

15. 2.) Openness

16. Half-Brained Thinking “Open Yourself Up, And You Will Get Hurt”

17. The So How: Radical Transparency

18. Two Diagnostic Questions

19. 1. (Internal) How Can I Be More Open To Myself?

20. 2. (External) a.) How Can I Be More Open To My Team? b.) How Can I Be More Open To My Customers?

21. “Openness Is About The Courage And The Vulnerability To Say, “Yeah, I’ll Try It. I Feel Pretty Uncomfortable And I Feel A Little Vulnerable, But I’ll Try It.” -Brene´ Brown

22. 3.) Acceptance

23. Half-Brained Thinking “Shame On You!!!”

24. “Shame Is The Enemy Of Acceptance” -Randy Elrod

25. The So How: Living Shameless

26. Half-Brained Thinking 6 Types Of Shamers

27. 1.) The Affirmer: The person who actually feels shame for you, gasps and confirms how horrified you should be.

28. 2.) The Sympathizer: The person who responds with sympathy (“I feel so sorry for you.”) rather than empathy (“I get it, I feel with you and I’ve been there.”

29. 3.) The Hero Worshiper: The person who needs you to be the pillar of worthiness and authenticity, who can’t help you because they are too disappointed in your imperfections.”

30. 4.) The Reprover: The person who is so uncomfortable with vulnerability that they scold, “How did you let this happen?”

31. 5.) The Fixer: The person who is all about making it better, and out of their own discomfort, refuse to acknowledge that you can actually make terrible choices (“You’re exaggerating. It wasn’t that bad.”)

32. 6.) The One Upper: The person who confuses connection with the opportunity to one-up you. (“Well, that’s nothing. Listen what happened to me...”)

33. Two Diagnostic Questions

34. 1. (Internal) Do I Talk To Myself The Way I Would Talk To Someone I Really Love And Respect And Whom I’m Trying To Comfort In The Middle Of A Breakdown?

35. 2. (External) Are My Expectations Of Others Reasonable?

36. 4.) Love

37. “If you aren’t good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone, since you’ll resent the time and energy you give another person that you aren’t even giving to yourself.” - Barbara De Angelis

38. Half-Brained Thinking J esus O thers Y ou

39. The So How: Unconditional Love

40. Two Diagnostic Questions

41. 1. (Internal) Deep down in my core because of my family, religion and education, do I feel it is wrong to love myself before others?

42. 2. (External) Do others feel loved when they are around me? My family, my team, my customers?

43. Curiosity Openness Acceptance Love

44. “Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.” -Carl Jung

45. Notes and Powerpoint http://randyelrod.com/agm

46. Notes and Powerpoint http://randyelrod.com/agm