1. 0 overview to learn the Dutch Warning: General impression Dealing with the Dutch

2. 1 a firm handshake Dealing with the Dutch

3. 2 formal and informal forms of address Dealing with the Dutch U = formal Jij = informal

4. 3 keeping their distance Dealing with the Dutch

5. 4 being on time Dealing with the Dutch

6. 5 letting the other finish speaking Dealing with the Dutch

7. 6 “yes” means “yes” it is a commitment Dealing with the Dutch

8. 7 verbal and Non - verbal communication Dealing with the Dutch

9. 8 dropping by unannounced Dealing with the Dutch

10. 9 taking flowers with you Dealing with the Dutch

11. 10 you won’t automatically be invited for dinner Dealing with the Dutch

12. 11 not everything revolves around food Dealing with the Dutch

13. 12 enjoying themselves seems to be a sin Dealing with the Dutch

14. 13 act normal Dealing with the Dutch

15. 14 who pays in a cafe or restaurant ? Dealing with the Dutch

16. 15 announce if you speak your native language Dealing with the Dutch

17. 16 family ties are less important in the Netherlands Dealing with the Dutch

18. 17 every thing in life is carefull planned Dealing with the Dutch

19. 18 the wheater Dealing with the Dutch

20. 19 adorable little rouges Dealing with the Dutch

21. 20 to bed on time and no playing outside after six Dealing with the Dutch

22. 21 sex Dealing with the Dutch

23. 22 whistling to woman on the street Dealing with the Dutch

24. 23 showing that you want sex Dealing with the Dutch

25. 24 do Dutch woman seems infeminine to you? Dealing with the Dutch

26. 25 breats or buttocks? Dealing with the Dutch

27. 26 relationships: understanding respect and love Dealing with the Dutch

28. 27 how do the dutch move their bodies Dealing with the Dutch

29. 28 “come in” Dealing with the Dutch

30. 29 coffee Dealing with the Dutch

31. 30 “gezelligheid” Dealing with the Dutch

32. 31 at the dinner table Dealing with the Dutch

33. 32 television Dealing with the Dutch

34. 33 give my regards to your wife Dealing with the Dutch

35. 34 helping a woman in her coat Dealing with the Dutch

36. 35 adapting to live in holland Dealing with the Dutch

37. 36 dogs and cats Dealing with the Dutch

38. 37 religion Dealing with the Dutch

39. 38 the left hand or the right Dealing with the Dutch

40. 39 pork or beef? Dealing with the Dutch

41. 40 conversations Dealing with the Dutch

42. 41 getting straight to the point Dealing with the Dutch

43. 42 direct language contradicting on another Dealing with the Dutch

44. 43 telling you the truth an lying Dealing with the Dutch

45. 44 when do Dutch not tell the truth Dealing with the Dutch

46. 45 arguments and opinions Dealing with the Dutch

47. 46 why? Dealing with the Dutch

48. 47 asking for a promotion Dealing with the Dutch

49. 48 I don’t know Dealing with the Dutch

50. 49 do they always Want to stay out of the crowd? Dealing with the Dutch

51. 50 arguing and making threads Dealing with the Dutch

52. 51 an argument has to be cleared up Dealing with the Dutch

53. 52 mother Dealing with the Dutch

54. 53 not too enthusiatic Dealing with the Dutch

55. 54 taking the initiative Dealing with the Dutch

56. 55 making jokes about the royal family Dealing with the Dutch

57. 56 teasing Dealing with the Dutch

58. 57 emancipated woman Dealing with the Dutch

59. 58 wives and daughtes Dealing with the Dutch

60. 59 a woman boss Dealing with the Dutch

61. 60 the “me” and “we” culture Dealing with the Dutch

62. 61 “let the police tell them to stop” Dealing with the Dutch

63. 62 body contact Dealing with the Dutch

64. 63 Dutch friends do not always have time for you Dealing with the Dutch

65. 64 reluctance to be a nuisance Dealing with the Dutch

66. 65 indirect orders and instructions Dealing with the Dutch

67. 66 “you must help me” Dealing with the Dutch

68. 67 “don’t be so silly” Dealing with the Dutch

69. 68 now you are really one of us Dealing with the Dutch

70. 69 what do they Talk about? Dealing with the Dutch Work House Car Family

71. 70 how to ask for something nicely? Dealing with the Dutch Do you mind? Sorry !! Perdon !! Can i … ??

72. 71 movements and guestures Dealing with the Dutch

73. 72 how do the Dutch tell each other off? Dealing with the Dutch Do you do that also at home? NO ! So why do you do kit here then?

74. 73 looking into each others eyes Dealing with the Dutch

75. 74 confessing to the crime Dealing with the Dutch

76. 75 first a warning then the punishment Dealing with the Dutch

77. 76 showing remorse “i will not do it again” Dealing with the Dutch

78. 77 aren’t there any Social values in the Netherlands? Dealing with the Dutch

79. 78 smacking your lips at the table Dealing with the Dutch

80. 79 outings Dealing with the Dutch

81. 80 are the Dutch unpredictable? Dealing with the Dutch

82. 81 Dutch history Dealing with the Dutch

83. 82 insurance Dealing with the Dutch

84. 83 the telephone Dealing with the Dutch Hello good morning family Janssen Hello Janssen Janssen

85. 84 meetings Dealing with the Dutch

86. 85 anti-german Dealing with the Dutch 2nd world war

87. 86 Belgians Dealing with the Dutch

88. 87 having or sharing Dealing with the Dutch

89. 88 keeping business and private matters separate Dealing with the Dutch Busniess = formal Private = informal

90. 89 expressing emotions Dealing with the Dutch

91. 90 the birthday calender Dealing with the Dutch

92. 91 sinterklaas Dealing with the Dutch

93. 92 christmas and the new year Dealing with the Dutch

94. 93 here is to your health !!! Dealing with the Dutch To your health Proost !!!

95. 94 the wish list Dealing with the Dutch Birthday Sinterklaas Wedding General celebration

96. 95 unwrapping presents Dealing with the Dutch Thank you very much Very nice It was not necessary

97. 96 living together Dealing with the Dutch

98. 97 family celebrations are contracted out Dealing with the Dutch

99. 98 saving stamps Dealing with the Dutch

100. 99 frugality Dealing with the Dutch