1. Feb 25, 20071 The Greatest of These is Love Session 4 Agape: God’s Love

2. Feb 25, 20072 Class notes PowerPoint Presentations and notes can be found at: http://www.tpcnc.org/SundaySchool/Love/ The Greatest of These is Love

3. Feb 25, 20073 The Greatest of These is Love Review: The Different Types of Love 1.Friendship (Greek: φιλία philía )

4. Feb 25, 20074 The Greatest of These is Love Review: The Different Types of Love 1.Friendship (Greek: φιλία philía ) 2.Romantic (Greek: ἔ ρως érōs )

5. Feb 25, 20075 The Greatest of These is Love Review: The Different Types of Love 1.Friendship (Greek: φιλία philía ) 2.Romantic (Greek: ἔ ρως érōs ) 3.Affection (Greek: στοργή storgē )

6. Feb 25, 20076 The Greatest of These is Love Review: The Different Types of Love 1.Friendship (Greek: φιλία philía ) 2.Romantic (Greek: ἔ ρως érōs ) 3.Affection (Greek: στοργή storgē ) 4.God’s Love, Charity (Greek: ἀ γάπη agápē )

7. Feb 25, 20077 The Greatest of These is Love Differences between human loves and God's love

8. Feb 25, 20078 The Greatest of These is Love Differences Natural Romantic love and Affection are both natural Preprogrammed into us for survival Romantic love for procreation Affection for raising family

9. Feb 25, 20079 The Greatest of These is Love Differences (continued) Self interested All three can have self motivated interest. Can be either good or bad depending on the subject of interest Sees others as they relate to our reality, our needs. Can become possessive, jealous Can absorb the beloved (assimulation).

10. Feb 25, 200710 The Greatest of These is Love Differences (continued) Missing Divine Love In spite of the resemblance to Divine love, only an image, or facsimile. Need Divine Love to be perfected. Can seek to replace God's love, and become, as Lewis says, demons. They lack the Holiness, or Joy, of God.

11. Feb 25, 200711 The Greatest of These is Love Agape: God’s Love It is a rational action; a will, not an emotion. Recognizes who we are. Recognizes our worth. Loves us for our sake. Selfless and giving. Does not absorb our personality. Freely given as Grace.

12. Feb 25, 200712 The Greatest of These is Love Agape: God’s Love “But the great thing to remember is that, though our feelings come and go, His love for us does not. It is not wearied by our sins, or our indifference; and, therefore, it is quite relentless in its determination that we shall be cured of those sins, at whatever cost to us, at whatever cost to Him.” C.S. Lewis “Mere Christianity” Book III, Chapter 9

13. Feb 25, 200713 The Greatest of These is Love Classic Text on God’s Love: 1 John 4:7-12

14. Feb 25, 200714 The Greatest of These is Love 1 John 4:7-12 (New Living Translation) 7 Dear friends, let us continue to love one another, for love comes from God. Anyone who loves is a child of God and knows God. 8 But anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love.

15. Feb 25, 200715 The Greatest of These is Love Classic Text on God’s Love: 1 John 4:7-12 God is the Source of all love: 4:7-8

16. Feb 25, 200716 The Greatest of These is Love 1 John 4:7-12 (New Living Translation) 7 Dear friends, let us continue to love one another, for love comes from God. Anyone who loves is a child of God and knows God. 8 But anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love. 9 God showed how much he loved us by sending his one and only Son into the world so that we might have eternal life through him. 10 This is real love—not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins.

17. Feb 25, 200717 The Greatest of These is Love Classic Text on God’s Love: 1 John 4:7-12 God is the Source of all love: 4:7-8 God models what genuine love is: 4:9-10

18. Feb 25, 200718 The Greatest of These is Love 1 John 4:7-12 (New Living Translation) 7 Dear friends, let us continue to love one another, for love comes from God. Anyone who loves is a child of God and knows God. 8 But anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love. 9 God showed how much he loved us by sending his one and only Son into the world so that we might have eternal life through him. 10 This is real love—not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins. 11 Dear friends, since God loved us that much, we surely ought to love each other. 12 No one has ever seen God. But if we love each other, God lives in us, and his love is brought to full expression in us.

19. Feb 25, 200719 The Greatest of These is Love Classic Text on God’s Love: 1 John 4:7-12 God is the Source of all love: 4:7-8 God models what genuine love is: 4:9-10 God commands us to love others: 4:11-12 God’s love is complete when if flows from God, through us to each other.

20. Feb 25, 200720 The Greatest of These is Love How do we come to love God?

21. Feb 25, 200721 The Greatest of These is Love How we come to love God Gradually Restlessness Craving Emptiness Awakening Will

22. Feb 25, 200722 The Greatest of These is Love How we come to love God “God is not perceptible, nor his goodness experienced, as long as we do not come to a realization that the good things of this world are unable to satisfy us. The good that God has done and the good that God himself is, which are testified to by Christianity, do not move us. Only if the seed of his love has entered us do we find ourselves responding to this testimony. Otherwise the church's witness only makes us see that we must give up a lot of things that we find desirable, as well as do many things that are not attractive to us, such as help the needy, support the church financially, and attend worship services. There are many restrictions on the way we behave. We are to control our passions and to come to terms with our desire for prestige. In short, responding to God seems only to be tedious.” Diogenes Allen, “Love”, p.122

23. Feb 25, 200723 The Greatest of These is Love How we come to love God Other ways… Christians Scripture and Holy Spirit

24. Feb 25, 200724 The Greatest of These is Love How we come to love God What is it like? Starts small Our will changes Our focus changes Our goals change

25. Feb 25, 200725 The Greatest of These is Love How we come to love God What happens to us? Interests change We are challenged We receive and respond Our lives are revalued Our priorities change We become pilgrims

26. Feb 25, 200726 The Greatest of These is Love How we come to love God What happens to us? Our loves change “The natural loves are summoned to become modes of Charity while also remaining the natural loves they were. One sees here at one a sort of echo or rhyme or corollary of the Incarnation itself. And this need not surprise us, for the Author of both is the same. As Christ is perfect God and perfect Man, the natural loves are called to become perfect Charity and also perfect natural loves.” C.S. Lewis, “The Four Loves”, p.133

27. Feb 25, 200727 The Greatest of These is Love Next week: Agape Continued…