2.  When going up stairs with a lady always walk ahead, when going down stairs with a lady always walk behind.  When you meet a lady in the street wait for her to bow to you then tip your hat to her.  When meeting a lady in town and talking to her always walk with her, never let her stand still.  Always stand up when a lady stands up or enters the room.  Take care not to step on her dress. GOOD MANNERS FOR MEN

3.  Never wear pearls or diamonds in the morning.  Never dance more than 3 dances with the same partner.  No lady may visit a man alone except on a matter of business.  Never walk alone, always walk with someone else.  A lady may never ignore someone after having been introduced to them. GOOD MANNERS FOR WOMEN

4. Talk about :  The weather  Ask about their family’s health  Books you have read recently  People you both know  NOTHING PERSONAL ! CONVERSATION