3. Is there something YOU Should’ve …DONE

4. She thought he was the one: He Wanted to spend ever second with her She thought he LOVED her This Should’ve… been her Teen Age Love Story

6. Facts About Dating Violence 70 % of people listed at least one form of violence is acceptable in a relationship 40 % think slapping is acceptable 39% had either experienced or committed some form of dating violence 65% have known someone in an abusive relationship For teens: 71% of violence occurred in their homes and 59 % in their vehicles 25% of high school students have experienced physical violence in dating relationship. Up to 35% of teens equated jealousy, violence, and possessiveness with LOVE 30% of teens intervened to help a friend from dating violence. 25% of teens told no one about the abuse; and if they did, 66% told a friend, and 26% told a parent.

7. I Should’ve… checked her text

9. We Should’ve… Noticed she stopped doing the things she loved

10. Warning Signs Being able to tell the difference between healthy, unhealthy and abusive relationships can be more difficult than you would think. No two relationships are the same, so what’s unhealthy in one relationships may be abusive in the next. Although there are many signs to pay attention to in a relationship, look for these common warning signs of dating abuse: Checking cell phones, emails or social networks without permission Extreme jealousy or insecurity Constant belittling or put-downs Explosive temper Isolation from family and friends Making false accusations Erratic mood swings Physically inflicting pain or hurt in any way Possessiveness Telling someone what to do Repeatedly pressuring someone to have sex If you or someone you know sees the warning signs in their relationship, Talk to us -- we can help. Learn other ways how unhealthy and abusive relationships work by exploring our power and control wheel.

11. I Should’ve … Spoke to her parents about her failing grades and my suspicion she was drinking

12. COMMON CLUES THAT INDICATE A TEENAGER MAY BE EXPERIENCING DATING VIOLENCE: – Physical signs of injury. – Truancy and/or dropping out of school. – Failing grades. – Changes in mood or personality. – Use of drugs/alcohol — where there was no prior use. – Emotional outburst. – Isolation from friends and family.

13. Signs that your date is abusive: Extreme jealousy Controlling behavior Explosive anger Isolates you from family and friends Uses force during an argument Verbally abusive Threatens you with violence

14. There are ways not to become part of the I Should’ve …group

15. As a society…Our Story SHOULD read…

16. The ultimate goal is to stop dating violence before it starts! Strategies that promote healthy relationships are vital. During the preteen and teen years, young people are learning skills they need to form positive relationships with others. This is an ideal time to promote healthy relationships. Preventing patterns of dating violence that can last into adulthood is crucial. Many prevention strategies are proven to avert or reduce dating violence. Some effective school-based programs change norms, improve problem solving, and address dating violence in addition to other youth risk behaviors, such as substance use and sexual risk behaviors. Other programs prevent dating violence through changes to the school environment or training influential adults, like parents/caregivers and coaches, to work with youth to prevent dating violence.

17. This Should Not Be Your Story Don’t Let the Story End This Way!!!

18. “Skyscraper” is a ballad and the lyrics speak of staying strong and believing in oneself. Lovato wrote this song during a time in her life facing her own personal struggles and this has become an empowerment anthem. Music by…

19. 1-800-CDC-INFO (232-4636) www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention Serving survivors of domestic violence and their children. Shelters and services located in Lima and Kenton, Ohio. 24/7 crisis hotline 1-877-228-4357. http://www.crossroadscrisiscenter.com Resources for Victims of Teen Dating Violence The National Domestic Violence Hotline (link is external) 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) or 1.800.787.3224 (TTY) - See more at: http://youth.gov/youth-topics/teen-dating-violence/resources#sthash.Cs0dQs57.dpuf The National Centers for Victims of Crime (link is external) (NCVC) 1-800-FYI-CALL - See more at: http://youth.gov/youth-topics/teen-dating-violence/resources#sthash.Cs0dQs57.dpuf The National Dating Abuse Helpline (link is external) 1.866.331.9474 - See more at: http://youth.gov/youth- topics/teen-dating-violence/resources#sthash.Cs0dQs57.dpuf