1. Socialization & the Self Becoming Human and Humane

2. Introduction Socialization- the lifelong process of learning to become a member of the social world Socialization- the lifelong process of learning to become a member of the social world Interaction- the basic building block of socialization through which a child is shaped into a human being, learns its culture, and becomes a member of a society Interaction- the basic building block of socialization through which a child is shaped into a human being, learns its culture, and becomes a member of a society Social self- the perceptions we have of who we are Social self- the perceptions we have of who we are

3. Nature vs. Nurture The debate over whether biology or socialization explains the self and human behaviors The debate over whether biology or socialization explains the self and human behaviors Sociobiology (evolutionary psychology)- a reductionist theory that claims our genetic make-up “wires” us for certain social behaviors Sociobiology (evolutionary psychology)- a reductionist theory that claims our genetic make-up “wires” us for certain social behaviors –Not well accepted by sociologists

4. The importance of socialization Children need human contact, affection, and interaction in order to fully develop Children need human contact, affection, and interaction in order to fully develop –E.g., Anna, Isabelle, neglected orphan children –Because these children were not socialized at the proper time, their developmental disorders persisted after attempts to integrate them into society

5. Socialization and the social world Most experiences are a part of the socialization experience Most experiences are a part of the socialization experience –Micro-level- e.g., parents, friends –Meso-level- e.g., schools and religion –Macro-level- e.g., national advertisements Organizations are dependent upon socialized people to help the groups persist Organizations are dependent upon socialized people to help the groups persist

6. Structural-functionalist perspective- different socializing agents support one another Structural-functionalist perspective- different socializing agents support one another Conflict perspective- different socializing agents have conflicting goals Conflict perspective- different socializing agents have conflicting goals –Those who have power use socialization to manipulate others into supporting the power structure that benefits the elite –Most individuals have very little power to decide or control their futures

7. Development of the self Self- the perceptions we have of who we are which are developed from our perceptions of the way others respond to us Self- the perceptions we have of who we are which are developed from our perceptions of the way others respond to us The development of the self begins in infancy The development of the self begins in infancy Biology and sociology both contribute to the development of the self Biology and sociology both contribute to the development of the self

8. The looking glass self (Cooley) 1. We imagine how we appear to others 2. We interpret how others judge that appearance and then respond to that interpretation 3. We experience feelings of pride or shame based on this imagined appearance and judgment 4. We respond based on our interpretation

10. Role-taking (Mead) We imagine ourselves from the point of view of others We imagine ourselves from the point of view of others When humans can symbolically recognize objects, they can the view the self as an object When humans can symbolically recognize objects, they can the view the self as an object This process begins with having a name, which differentiates the self from other objects This process begins with having a name, which differentiates the self from other objects Only humans use symbols Only humans use symbols

11. Symbolic interaction theory We take the actions of ourselves and others into account and take mental notes accordingly We take the actions of ourselves and others into account and take mental notes accordingly The self can be passive (developed by the way that others see us) and active (an initiator of action- an agent) The self can be passive (developed by the way that others see us) and active (an initiator of action- an agent)

12. Parts of the self (Mead) The “I”- spontaneous, unpredictable, impulsive; acts without considering social consequences The “I”- spontaneous, unpredictable, impulsive; acts without considering social consequences The “me”- knows the rules of society and attempts to channel the impulses of the “I” into socially acceptable behavior that still meets the “I’s” needs The “me”- knows the rules of society and attempts to channel the impulses of the “I” into socially acceptable behavior that still meets the “I’s” needs The “me” requires the ability to take the role of the other The “me” requires the ability to take the role of the other

13. Stages in the development of the self (Mead) Play- children actually take on the role of particular others, but do not understand complex relationships Play- children actually take on the role of particular others, but do not understand complex relationships Game- children can take the role of multiple others at once and understand the generalized other Game- children can take the role of multiple others at once and understand the generalized other –Generalized other- a composite of societal expectations –Can now play complex games (e.g., baseball)

14. The connections of the self to the meso-level Iowa school Iowa school –Our sense of self is defined by our social positions within organizations and institutions in society –The self is relatively stable because a core self develops –Because those organizations are so important to our core self, we have a vested interest in their preservation

15. Socialization throughout the life cycle Rites of passage occur at most stages Rites of passage occur at most stages –Important because they impact how others perceive the individual, how the individual perceives herself, and what is expected of the individual –Infant - Childhood- Adolescence –Adulthood - Middle Adulthood – Retired and the Elderly - Death and Dying

16. The process of resocialization Resocialization- the process of abandoning one or more social positions in favor of others that are more suitable for a newly acquired status Resocialization- the process of abandoning one or more social positions in favor of others that are more suitable for a newly acquired status Can be voluntary or non-voluntary Can be voluntary or non-voluntary

17. Agents of socialization Agents are the mechanism through which the self learns the beliefs, values, and behaviors of the culture Agents are the mechanism through which the self learns the beliefs, values, and behaviors of the culture The importance of various agents change over the life course The importance of various agents change over the life course Agents can be formal or informal Agents can be formal or informal Socialization differs by parenting style, social class, race, sex, etc. Socialization differs by parenting style, social class, race, sex, etc.

18. Families as agents of socialization Families use positive and negative sanctions to help teach right from wrong Families use positive and negative sanctions to help teach right from wrong The amount and type of sanctions differ by family The amount and type of sanctions differ by family Family socialization differs by culture Family socialization differs by culture The number of children in a household and birth order can influence individual socializations The number of children in a household and birth order can influence individual socializations

19. Social class and socialization Social class- the wealth, power, and prestige rankings individuals hold in society Social class- the wealth, power, and prestige rankings individuals hold in society Parents socialize their children to enter into adult roles common to other members of their social class Parents socialize their children to enter into adult roles common to other members of their social class The unequal distribution of resources in society have an impact on who we become The unequal distribution of resources in society have an impact on who we become

20. Electronic media: Meso-level agents within the home Children in the U.S. spend more time watching television than any other waking activity Children in the U.S. spend more time watching television than any other waking activity What messages do these agents of socialization send to children? What messages do these agents of socialization send to children?