2. Communication for Relationship Building: It’s Not All Talk Chapter 4 McGraw-Hill/Irwin Copyright © 2007 by The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All rights reserved.

3. 4-3 Chapter 4

4. 4-4 Main Topics  The Tree of Business Life: Communication  Communication: It Takes Two  Nonverbal Communication: Watch for It  Barriers to Communication  Master Persuasive Communication to Maintain Control 4 Chapter

5. 4-5 The Tree of Business Life: Communication The Golden Rule Guided by The Golden Rule, effectively communicate using:  Words  Body language  Visual Aids  Listening  Unselfishness to help a person make the correct buying decision I T C Ethical Service Builds T r u e Relationships T TT TTTT TTTT

6. 4-6 Communication: It Takes Two  In a sales context, communication is the act of transmitting verbal and nonverbal information and understanding between the seller and buyer.

7. 4-7 Exhibit 4-1: What Did You Say? What Did I Hear? BARRIER Speaker Listener Psychological barrier or filter

8. 4-8 Why People Buy–The Black Box Approach*  Internalization process is referred to as a black box.  We cannot see into the buyer’s mind  Stimulus-response model Exhibit 3-1: Stimulus-response model of buyer behavior Stimulus Black box Response Sales Presentation Buyer’s Hidden Mental Process Sale/No Sale

9. The Communication Process Basic Model

10. 1. Sender has idea 1. Sender has idea

11. The Communication Process Basic Model 1. Sender has idea 1. Sender has idea

12. The Communication Process Basic Model 2. Sender encodes idea in message 2. Sender encodes idea in message 1. Sender has idea 1. Sender has idea

13. The Communication Process Basic Model 2. Sender encodes idea in message 2. Sender encodes idea in message 1. Sender has idea 1. Sender has idea

14. The Communication Process Basic Model 3. Message travels over channel 3. Message travels over channel 2. Sender encodes idea in message 2. Sender encodes idea in message 1. Sender has idea 1. Sender has idea

15. The Communication Process Basic Model 2. Sender encodes idea in message 2. Sender encodes idea in message 3. Message travels over channel 3. Message travels over channel 1. Sender has idea 1. Sender has idea

16. The Communication Process Basic Model 2. Sender encodes idea in message 2. Sender encodes idea in message 3. Message travels over channel 3. Message travels over channel 1. Sender has idea 1. Sender has idea 4. Receiver decodes message 4. Receiver decodes message

17. The Communication Process Basic Model 2. Sender encodes idea in message 2. Sender encodes idea in message 3. Message travels over channel 3. Message travels over channel 1. Sender has idea 1. Sender has idea 4. Receiver decodes message 4. Receiver decodes message

18. The Communication Process Basic Model 2. Sender encodes idea in message 2. Sender encodes idea in message 3. Message travels over channel 3. Message travels over channel 1. Sender has idea 1. Sender has idea 4. Receiver decodes message 4. Receiver decodes message 5. Feedback travels to sender 5. Feedback travels to sender

19. The Communication Process Basic Model 2. Sender encodes idea in message 2. Sender encodes idea in message 3. Message travels over channel 3. Message travels over channel 1. Sender has idea 1. Sender has idea 4. Receiver decodes message 4. Receiver decodes message 5. Feedback travels to sender 5. Feedback travels to sender

20. The Communication Process Basic Model 2. Sender encodes idea in message 2. Sender encodes idea in message 3. Message travels over channel 3. Message travels over channel 1. Sender has idea 1. Sender has idea 4. Receiver decodes message 4. Receiver decodes message 5. Feedback travels to sender 5. Feedback travels to sender

21. The Communication Process Basic Model 2. Sender encodes idea in message 2. Sender encodes idea in message 3. Message travels over channel 3. Message travels over channel 1. Sender has idea 1. Sender has idea 4. Receiver decodes message 4. Receiver decodes message 6. Possible additional feedback to receiver 6. Possible additional feedback to receiver 5. Feedback travels to sender 5. Feedback travels to sender

22. The Communication Process Basic Model 2. Sender encodes idea in message 2. Sender encodes idea in message 3. Message travels over channel 3. Message travels over channel 1. Sender has idea 1. Sender has idea 4. Receiver decodes message 4. Receiver decodes message 6. Possible additional feedback to receiver 6. Possible additional feedback to receiver 5. Feedback travels to sender 5. Feedback travels to sender

23. 4-23 Salesperson-Buyer Communication Process Requires Feedback  Major communication elements:  Source  Encoding process  Message  Medium  Decoding process  Receiver  Feedback  Noise

24. 4-24 Exhibit 4-2: The Basic Salesperson-Buyer Communication Model Has Eight Elements

25. 4-25  Concept of space:  Territorial space  Intimate space – 2 feet  Personal space – 2 to 4 feet  Social space – 4 to 6 feet  Public space – 12+ feet  Space threats – too close – “territorial imperative”  Space invasion – OK to be close Nonverbal Communication: Watch For It

26. 4-26 Exhibit 4-3: Office Arrangements and Territorial Space

27. 4-27 Communication through Appearance and the Handshake  Style hair carefully.  Dress as a professional.  Shake hands firmly and look people in the eye.  Strangers may be uncomfortable shaking hands

28. 4-28  Nonverbal signals come from:  Body angle  Face  Hands  Arms  Legs Body Language Gives You Clues

29. 4-29 A Light Signal for Vehicles has a Green, Yellow, and Red Light  A person also sends three types of messages using body communication signals.

30. 4-30 Green Light  Signals acceptance – a green light gives the “go ahead”  It indicates that the buyer is willing to listen  It indicates that the buyer may like what is being said

31. Body Language Gives You Clues  Body angle – leaning forward or upright at attention  Face – smiling, pleasant, relaxed, good eye contact, positive voice tones  Arms – relaxed and generally open  Legs – crossed and pointed toward you or uncrossed  Acceptance Signals  Hands – relaxed and generally open, doing calculations, holding on to a sample as you try to withdraw it, firm handshake

32. 4-32 Yellow Light  Signals caution – a yellow light gives a neutral or skeptical sign indicating the buyer maybe uncertain about what you are saying  Handle the signal properly, or it may change from yellow to red

33. Body Language Gives You Clues  Body angle – leaning away from you  Face – puzzled, little or no expression, little eye contact, saying little, asking only a few questions  Arms – crossed and tense  Legs – moving, crossed away from you  Caution Signals  Hands – moving, fidgeting with something, clasped, weak handshake

34. Body Language Gives You Clues  Adjust to the situation by slowing up or departing from your planned presentation  Use open ended questions to encourage buyers to talk and express their attitudes and beliefs  Listen and respond to what buyers say  How to Handle Caution Signals  Project acceptance signals yourself

35. 4-35 Red Light  Signals disagreement – a red light indicates the person may not be interested in your product

36. Body Language Gives You Clues  Body angle – retracted shoulders, leaning away from you, entire body is back – wants to move away  Face – tense, showing anger, wrinkled face and brow, very little eye contact, negative voice tones, may become suddenly silent  Arms – tensed, crossed over chest  Legs – crossed and away from you  Disagreement Signals  Hands – tensed and clenched, weak handshake

37. Body Language Gives You Clues  Use open-ended questions  Project acceptance signals yourself  Stop your planned presentation  Let the buyer know that you are there to help, not to sell at any cost  How to Handle Disagreement Signals  Reduce or eliminate pressure-to-buy talk  Use direct questions to determine attitudes and beliefs

38. 4-38 Recognizing Body Signals - Guidelines  Knowing body signal guidelines can improve communication ability by allowing the salesperson to:  Recognize nonverbal signals  Interpret them correctly  Be prepared to alter a selling strategy  Respond positively both nonverbally and verbally to a buyer’s nonverbal signals

39. 4-39 What Would You Do?  You arrive at an industrial purchasing agent’s office on time; this is your first meeting. After you have waited five minutes, the agent’s secretary says, “She will see you.” After the initial greeting, she asks you to sit down.  For each of the following three situations determine:  What nonverbal signals is she communicating?  How would you respond nonverbally?

40. 4-40  She sits down behind her desk. She sits up straight in her chair. She clasps her hands together and with little expression on her face says, “What can I do for you?”  What nonverbal signal is she communicating?  How would you respond nonverbally?  Green (acceptance) nonverbal signal  Yellow (caution) nonverbal signal What Would You Do? Situation #1

41. 4-41  As you begin the main part of your presentation, the buyer reaches for the telephone and says, “Keep going; I need to tell my secretary something.”  What nonverbal signal is she communicating?  Yellow (caution) or red (disagreement) nonverbal signal  How would you respond nonverbally?  Green (acceptance) nonverbal signal What Would You Do? Situation #2

42. 4-42  In the middle of your presentation, you notice the buyer slowly lean back in her chair. As you continue to talk, a puzzled looks comes over her face.  What nonverbal signal is she communicating?  How would you respond nonverbally?  Green (acceptance) nonverbal signal  Yellow (caution) nonverbal signal What Would You Do? Situation #3

43. 4-43 Barriers To Communication  Differences in perception – buyer and seller should share a common understanding of information contained in presentation  Buyer does not recognize a need for product  Selling pressure – enthusiasm and some sales pressure is necessary, high pressure techniques erect communication barriers  Information overload – presenting too much technical information may confuse or offend buyer

44. 4-44 Barriers To Communication  Disorganized sales presentation can frustrate buyer  Distractions – telephone calls and people entering the office may sidetrack buyer’s thoughts  Poor listening – at times buyer may not listen to you  How and what you say – controlled and caring talk are positive; conniving and careless talk are negative  Not adapting to buyer’s style – match your style to your customer’s style

45. 4-45 Exhibit 4-8: Barriers To Communication Which May Kill a Sale

46. 4-46 PP ersuasion is the ability to change a person’s belief, position, or course of action. FF eedback guides your presentation. PP robing – asking questions RR emember to use trial closes. EE mpathy puts you in your customer’s shoes. KK eep it Simple Salesperson (KISS) CC reating mutual trust develops friendship. Master Persuasive Communication To Maintain Control

47. 4-47 Master Persuasive Communication To Maintain Control, cont…  Listening clues you in.  Hearing  Listening  Listen to words, feelings, and thoughts  Three levels of listening  Marginal listening  Evaluative listening  Active listening  Technology helps to remember.

48. 4-48 Your Attitude Makes the Difference  Enthusiasm:  Excitement  Positive view on:  Helping others  Yourself  Being a salesperson

49. 4-49 Proof Statements Make You Believable  Credibility through:  Empathy  Listening  Enthusiasm  Proof statements substantiate claims.

50. 4-50 Summary of Major Selling Issues  Communication is the transmission of verbal and nonverbal information and understanding between a salesperson and prospect.  Modes of communication – words, gestures, visual aids  Communication process model  Barriers may hinder or prevent constructive communication during a sales presentation.

51. 4-51 Summary of Major Selling Issues, cont…  Barriers must be recognized and overcome or eliminated.  Nonverbal communication is a critical component of the overall communication process.  Territorial space, handshake, eye contact, body language  Enhancing overall persuasive power through development of several key characteristics  Empathy, more listening and less talking, positive attitude, enthusiastic manner

52. End of Chapter 4 Chapter 4 McGraw-Hill/Irwin Copyright © 2007 by The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. All rights reserved.