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Trindel Insurance Fund Presents Keepin’ the Peace at Work Gene Herndon Safety Officer Trindel Insurance Fund www.trindel.org tifsfty@directcon.net Ph. (530) 894-2027
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Why are you here? You and your coworkers are public servants. You and your coworkers are public servants. You provide those essential services to those in need. You provide those essential services to those in need. As a society we have committed to that helping hand. As a society we have committed to that helping hand. All of us are taxpayers and need one or more of these services. All of us are taxpayers and need one or more of these services.
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The Work You Do Is IMPORTANT! As public servants, providing those essential services it is our mission and commitment That’s Why You Are Here!
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Yours is a difficult mission! The system is complicated. The system is complicated. It is an exacting system. It is an exacting system. It is an bureaucratic system. It is an bureaucratic system. Your resources are limited. Your resources are limited. The rules are ever-changing. The rules are ever-changing. The people you are trying to help are difficult. The people you are trying to help are difficult. Sometimes the people you work with are difficult. Sometimes the people you work with are difficult. Your efforts often go unrecognized. Your efforts often go unrecognized.
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Yet, you must navigate this system to fulfill your mission to provide those essential services.
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One person cannot fulfill that mission alone. Like a ship at sea, It takes a crew to complete the voyage.
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Do we have a contractual employment obligation with the county and the taxpayers? To perform our professional tasks as described in our job description. To perform our professional tasks as described in our job description. To perform those tasks in an honest and ethical manner. To perform those tasks in an honest and ethical manner. To perform those tasks in a productive manner. To perform those tasks in a productive manner. To work with our coworkers in a cooperative, respectful and professional manner. To work with our coworkers in a cooperative, respectful and professional manner.
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What is Respect & Professionalism? Respect - Courteous regard for people's feelings Respect - Courteous regard for people's feelings Professionalism - H.A.R.D. qualities that characterize a professional person Professionalism - H.A.R.D. qualities that characterize a professional person Honest Honest Appropriate Appropriate Respectful Respectful Direct Direct
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Who do you spend the most waking hours with? Your family or significant people or Your coworkers?
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Your coworkers are your “work family”! Just like at home… Just like at home… Conflicts Happen!
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What causes conflicts in your “work family? Jealousy Jealousy Peer rivalry Peer rivalry Pride and ego Pride and ego Insecurities Insecurities Lack of communications Lack of communications Failed communications Failed communications Personalities Personalities Beliefs and values Beliefs and values Political Political Religious Religious
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Let’s talk about Stress! Uncertainty Lack of control
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Uncertainty Job 1. Programs 2. Policies 3. Budget 4. Organizational 5. Placement Personal 1. Relationships 2. Health 3. Financial 4. Fulfillment 5. Self-worth
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Lack of control Job 1. Promotions 2. Procedures 3. Future 4. Organizational 5. Placement Personal 1. Relationships 2. Financial 3. Beliefs & Values 4. Politics 5. Religion
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How do we react to conflicts? We look for support for our position. We look for support for our position. Sides can be chosen. Sides can be chosen. Relationships altered or lost. Relationships altered or lost. Can cause organizational melt down. Can cause organizational melt down.
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What are the Costs of “work family” conflicts? Personally? To the commitment and mission?
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To us personally? Increase anxiety. Increase anxiety. Affect health. Affect health. Can go home with you. Can go home with you. Damage us professionally. Damage us professionally.
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To the Mission and Commitment? Quality of services suffers Quality of services suffers Failure in the eyes of those we serve Failure in the eyes of those we serve Failure in the eyes of our peers. Failure in the eyes of our peers.
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Conflict is a part of life and the work we do. The question is: How do we navigate our way through conflict?
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LET’S TAKE A BREAK!
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Trindel Intensity of Conflict Scale (T.I.C.) 1-3 on TIC scale - May warrant only a shrug of the shoulders 4-7 on TIC scale - Calls for application of the H.A.R.D. rule. 8-10 on TIC scale - Permanent damage likely, repair unlikely Failure to address a TIC 4 guarantees a growth to a TIC 8 – 10!
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Conflict Navigational Tools Communication Communication Respect Respect Empathy Empathy Validation Validation Perspective Perspective Regaining control Regaining control Choosing your own path Choosing your own path Giving and getting recognition Giving and getting recognition
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Communication: Hearing vs. Listening Hearing - to perceive or apprehend by the ear Hearing - to perceive or apprehend by the ear Listening - to hear something with thoughtful attention, to give consideration Listening - to hear something with thoughtful attention, to give consideration The exchange of thoughts, messages, or information.
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Respect : Courteous regard for peoples opinions. Courteous regard for peoples opinions. Courteous regard for peoples beliefs and values. Courteous regard for peoples beliefs and values. May not agree but will respect. May not agree but will respect. Courteous regard for people's feelings
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Empathy: Walking in the other persons shoes Walking in the other persons shoes Looking at the situation from their experience, opinion, feelings Looking at the situation from their experience, opinion, feelings Understanding and entering into another's feelings
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Validation: Recognizing the truth as seen from the other persons perspective. Recognizing the truth as seen from the other persons perspective. Validating another’s position is accomplished through empathy. Validating another’s position is accomplished through empathy. The act of validating; finding or testing the truth of something.
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Perspective: How does the conflict relate to the mission and commitment. How does the conflict relate to the mission and commitment. How does the conflict relate to tomorrow, next week, next year, 100 years from now. How does the conflict relate to tomorrow, next week, next year, 100 years from now. A mental view or outlook.
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Control: We have control only over our own behaviors. We have control only over our own behaviors. We choose how to respond to the behavior of others. We choose how to respond to the behavior of others. We loose control when we allow others to control our responses. We loose control when we allow others to control our responses. Authority or ability to manage or direct.
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Choosing your own path. Is you glass half full or half empty. Is you glass half full or half empty. Do you pour out the glass so you glass is empty. Do you pour out the glass so you glass is empty. You make the choice. You make the choice.
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Giving and getting recognition. What is your minimum daily requirement of strokes? What is your minimum daily requirement of strokes? Are you getting them? Are you getting them? Are you giving them? Are you giving them? To get them give them? To get them give them?
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Let’s try out the tools. Joyce and Bill are discussing a difficult procedural work issue and Ted overhears the conversation and interrupts with his idea on what the solution is. His solution is based on little or no knowledge of the details of the issue. Is this a TIC 1 – 3, TIC 4 – 7, or a TIC 8 – 10? Is this a TIC 1 – 3, TIC 4 – 7, or a TIC 8 – 10? How would you handle it as a TIC 2, TIC 5, and TIC 9? How would you handle it as a TIC 2, TIC 5, and TIC 9?
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Keepin’ the Peace at Work… Requires learning how to navigate through conflicts. Requires learning how to navigate through conflicts. Addressing TIC 3s before they become TIC 8s Addressing TIC 3s before they become TIC 8s Applying the H.A.R.D. rule Applying the H.A.R.D. rule Learning and using these tools takes effort. Learning and using these tools takes effort. The choice is yours!
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