2. Relationship-is a connection a person has with another person. Healthful relationship- is a relationship that promotes self respect, encourages productivity and health, and is free of violence and drug misuse and abuse. Harmful relationship- is a relationship that damages self-respect, interferes with productivity and health, or includes violence or drug misuse and abuse.

4. This type of person seeks everyone's approval. A people pleaser will do drugs and other negative things just to gain attention from others.

5.  This type of person supports bad behavior and excuses the behavior as well.  The enabler may not get the attention, affection, and support they need, so they affect others in a negative way.

6.  This type of person is needy and dependent on another person.  The person depends on the partner to demonstrate affection or attention and will never be satisfied on the quality the clinger receives.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=392I_cnV bBI

7.  This type of person tries to fix everyone's problem that are not with in their responsibility.  Amy my girlfriends friend is a good example.  Healthy people do not need others to fix their problems because they fix their own.

8.  This type of person does not get emotionally involved and tries to stay active to avoid the other partner.  For example, the office dad who never has time for his family.

9.  The controller always has to control every situation in other words monopolize their partners life.

10.  This individual is self centered and everything revolves around themselves.  Me, me, me  Like a child’s perspective of life.

11.  This type of person may physically or verbally hurt someone.  This person may act gentle around others and act violent when alone.

12.  A person who is dishonest in a relationship.

13.  Always breaks his promises and is never reliable.

14.  Evaluate- examine the relationship  Recognize when you should end the relationship  Find ways to change harmful behaviors  Talk to people you trust about the relationship  Discuss honestly with the person your in a relationship about feelings and concerns

15.  Youtube.com(http://www.youtube.com/watc h?v=392I_cnVbBI)http://www.youtube.com/watc h?v=392I_cnVbBI  Google.images.com  Meeks, L., Heit, P, & Page, R. (2011). Comprehensive School Health Education: Totally Awesome  Strategies for Teaching Health (7th ed.). New York: McGraw-Hill.