1. People who work together will win, whether it be against complex football defenses, or the problems of modern society. Vince Lombardi

3. What to do? Involve everyone (mktplace of ideas) Ask questions (especially when you know the answer) Notice differences of opinion Be tentative “perhaps we should consider a different view” “ from what I understand from this discussion”

4. What to do? (continued) Be patient -don’t change your mind too quickly Stay group oriented use group pronouns “we” “us” “our” avoid personal pronouns “I” “me” “mine” Offer your position to the group “I have an idea” - BAD!!!!!! “Why don’t we consider …” GOOD!!!!!!!

5. What to do ? continued Use meta-discussional phrases “are we getting off the subject?” “have we heard from everyone?” “have we summarized this meeting?” “do we know what to do for next time?” Keep goal oriented Seek consensus-agreement through comm Learn from mistakes

6. Group Rules?

7. How do we start? Write down your group’s goal Determine motivation level Determine group rules Determine penalties for rule violation Everyone signs off