1. SELF ESTEEM

2. TERMS 1.Self concept: total picture a person has of him/herself. 2. Self-esteem: feeling that you have something worthwhile to contribute.

3. *Self concept is developed early in life. *Good self-concept leads to high self esteem.

4. *Children develop their self-concept from what they believe the important people in their lives feel about them.

5. Self Concept Cycle As I see myself Other’s reactions My actions To me As others see me

6. Practices Likely to Decrease Self Esteem *Negative Comments

7. *Comparing a child to other’s in a negative way.

8. *Overprotecting or over helping.

9. Practices Likely to Increase Self Esteem *Provide successful experiences

10. *Treat with love and respect.

11. * Praise accomplishments

12. *Avoid competition

13. Give room to achieve and explore.

14. *Let children make choices when possible.

15. *Encourage independence.

16. *Let them hear you making positive comments about them.

17. *Remember: building a child’s self esteem is a day to day process, not a one time thing.