1. Book6-Module1 Small Talk Vocabulary and Reading 大竹中学 张剑锋

3. Pre-reading Activity 1 Look at the picture and discuss. What do you think about Social Skills?

4. Have you ever crossed the road to avoid talking to someone you recognise? Would you love to go to a party and talk confidently to every guest? Do you want to make more friends but lack the confidence to talk to people you don’t know? Are you nervous about the idea of being at a social event in another country? Ask Yourself

5. Activity 2 Complete the sentences in A1,P2. 1.The singer was really good! She _________ me a lot! 2.He had an accident and ________ his bicycle. 3.Don ’ t shout at the children. You should _________ them to do better. 4.Make sure you _______ for your English examination. Do more homework! 5.At the party, I __________ a boy who used to attend my school. impressed damaged encourage prepare recognised

6. 1. When I meet strangers, I don’t like to talk about myself, so I _____ answering personal questions. 2. There are very few foreign visitors to my town, so we ____ the opportunity to meet people from other countries. sigh yawn nod avoid lack smile avoid lack Activity 3 Complete the sentences Activity 3 Complete the sentences in A4,P3.

7. 3. I said that we don’t have enough opportunity to speak English and he ______ his head in agreement. 4. I think the man I spoke to was tired—he _______ a lot. 5. He looked very sad when I asked him about his home. He _____ when he answered me. 6. I felt very welcome when I arrived at the party. The host ______ at me and shook my hand. nodded yawned smiled sighed

8. Activity 1 Read the passage and decide what kind of book it is from. Choose from this list. an English teaching book a business course a book which tells you what to do at social events a book to help you prepare for a speaking examination Skimming

9. How to do small talk Dos and don’ts while listening Introduction to the body of the passage by asking questions The social rules Part1 (pra.1-2) Part2 (pra. 3) Part3 (pra. 4-7) Part4 (pra. 8) Activity 2 Try to find the main idea of each part: Skimming

10. hobby salary exam film age food music sport income study film/sport star religion( 宗教 ) politics travel weather pet Which of these topics can/ cannot be talked about? Learn how to do small talk Fast-reading

11. hobby salaryexam film agefood musicsport income study film/sport star religion( 宗教 ) politics travel weather pet

12. True or False? 1.You can often change the topics according to your own interest. 2.We should keep good eye contact. 3.You can yawn and sigh while listening. 4.We should smile and nod while listening. Develop your listening skills

13. Read the passage and fill in the blanks. Do …Don’t … have some low-risk topics show that you are listening keep good eye contact use positive body language ask for more information remember some social rules look at your watch yawn sigh look away from the person change the subject finish others’ sentences

14. What’s the main idea of the last paragraph? A. No pains, no gains. B. The early bird gets the worm. C. When in Rome, do as the Romans do. Learn the rules

15. Careful-reading Activity 1 True or False 1.It is quite difficult to develop the social skills. 2.If you don’t want to damage your confidence then you should avoid some topics to strangers. 3.If you want to impress other people, don’t talk too much. 4.You shouldn’t ask any question while other people are speaking. 5.Changing the subject is necessary as a listener. 6.Not all the flowers are welcomed by the host. 7.Wherever you go, you’d better find out the social rules there first.

16. Activity 2 Read the passage again carefully and choose the correct answers. 1.To show you are a good listener, which of the following you mustn’t do? A. Use encouraging noises and gestures— smiling, nodding, saying “uh-huh” and “OK”, etc. B. Talk as much as possible. C. Ask for some information to show you are interested in the topic. D. Keep looking at the other person’s eyes.

17. 2. According to the passage, which skill do most people lack during communication? A. Listening. B. Speaking. C. Body language. D. Eye contact. 3. If you want to impress people, you’d better not do the following things except ____. A. use encouraging noises and gestures, and occasionally ask for more information to show your interest. B. look at your watch frequently. C. talk too much about yourself. D. change the subject or finish other people’s sentences for them.

18. 4. It can be inferred from the text that _____. A. if you talk to a man about his private things, he will like talking to you B. if you talk to a man about the topics that he is interested in, he will have a lot to talk to you C. the man likes talking to you for hours if you talk to him about the topics you are interested in D. people are always interested in what they do not know

19. 5. Which of the following can be drawn( 推论 ) from the passage? A. It is important for you to remember different social rules if you go to a social occasion in in another country. B. Listening is a skill which is as important as speaking. C. Learning some good social skills and having a good preparation for the topics can help you have a conversation at any social events. D. When you are talking to a man, you’d better talk as much as possible.

20. In order to have good social skills, we need to: Think of “safe” small talk topics Develop listening skills Learn social rules of different countries Post-reading Summary

21. Activity 1 Complete the passage based on the text. Small talk ________ you for more serious __________. You should be _______ and have some _______ conversation openers ______.For example, you can think of a recent ___ ____ or tell people about your _____. In order not to damage your ________ you should talk about _______ things and avoid talking about some ______ to strangers. prepares conversations prepared low-risk ready news story studies confidence “Safe” topics

22. Communication is a______ process – it ______ speaking and listening. You will _____ people if you ____ talk too much. By using ________ noises and ________ you can show that you are _______. You should use _______ body language. There are also some don ’ ts. For example, you shouldn ’ t _____ ____ from the person who ’ s talking to you and don ’ t _____ the subject or____ other people ’ s sentences for them. two-way involves impressdon’t encouraginggestures listening positive look away changefinish

23. If you go to a ____ _____ in another country, remember that social ___ can be ______. In some countries, you have to arrive ___ ___ at a party; in other counties, you don ’ t need to.__ _______, you need to know how long you should ___. Also, in some countries, you _____ take flowers of a _____ color, because they are ______. Whatever it is, you should ___ ____ first. social occasion rules different on time In addition stay mustn’t certainunlucky find out

24. ⑴ be nervous about ⑺ 提前做计划 ⑵ prepare for ⑻ 准备好某事 ⑶ think of ⑼ 双向过程 ⑷ eye contact ⑽ 感兴趣 ⑸ look away from ⑾ 除了... 以外 ⑹ find out ⑿ 某种颜色的花 对 …… 紧张 为 …… 做准备 想起 眼神交流 眼光从 …… 移开 查出 do advance planning get sth. ready a two-way process show interest in in addition to flowers of a certain color Activity 2 Translate these phrases.

25. Homework Remember new words and phrases. Review the whole passage and finish relative exercises.