1. Family Life Sex Respect & AIDS/HIV Awareness 8 th grade Shelby County Schools 2009-2010 John Aitken, Superintendent

2. Notice This curriculum will be taught on the dates determined by the Department of Curriculum & Accountability. These dates will be determined annually. This curriculum will be taught on the dates determined by the Department of Curriculum & Accountability. These dates will be determined annually. Only teachers who have attended Family Life Workshops or training conducted or sponsored by the Shelby County Department of Curriculum & Accountability may teach this curriculum. Only teachers who have attended Family Life Workshops or training conducted or sponsored by the Shelby County Department of Curriculum & Accountability may teach this curriculum. Family Life Curriculum Adopted 1991 Revised Summer, 1997 Updated Fall, 2001 Revised Summer, 2009

3. Day 1 Family Life Standard 7 : The student will understand the stages of human growth and development. Family Life Standard 7 : The student will understand the stages of human growth and development. 7.1 - TSW describe and demonstrate understanding of the developmental characteristics of adolescence including physical and emotional changes. 7.1 - TSW describe and demonstrate understanding of the developmental characteristics of adolescence including physical and emotional changes. 7.2 - TSW exhibit respect for others. 7.2 - TSW exhibit respect for others. 7.3 - TSW identify abstinence from sexual activity as the responsible and preferred choice for adolescence. 7.3 - TSW identify abstinence from sexual activity as the responsible and preferred choice for adolescence.

4. Day 1 Silently read “You Can Have Freedom: Yes to Real Love, No to Real Fear.” p. 71-74. Silently read “You Can Have Freedom: Yes to Real Love, No to Real Fear.” p. 71-74.

5. Day 1 Write a letter to a friend defining what real love means to you.

6. Day 1 Definition of Love: Unselfish, loyal, and benevolent concern for the good of another

7. Day 1 Silently read “Virginity Makes Sense to Me” p.76 Silently read “Virginity Makes Sense to Me” p.76

8. Day 1 Complete the What Do You Think questions p.77 Complete the What Do You Think questions p.77

9. Day 1 Answer the questions on “Thinking and Planning” p. 78 Answer the questions on “Thinking and Planning” p. 78

10. Day 2 Family Life Standard 7 : The student will understand the stages of human growth and development. Family Life Standard 7 : The student will understand the stages of human growth and development. 7.1 - TSW describe and demonstrate understanding of the developmental characteristics of adolescence including physical and emotional changes. 7.1 - TSW describe and demonstrate understanding of the developmental characteristics of adolescence including physical and emotional changes. 7.2 - TSW exhibit respect for others. 7.2 - TSW exhibit respect for others. 7.3 - TSW identify abstinence from sexual activity as the responsible and preferred choice for adolescence. 7.3 - TSW identify abstinence from sexual activity as the responsible and preferred choice for adolescence.

11. Day 2 Silently read “Dating: Is it working for us?” p. 81-82

12. Day 2 List the advantages of dating in your journal. List the advantages of dating in your journal.

13. Day 2 Silently read “Dating: A time to learn and grow” p. 83-84. Silently read “Dating: A time to learn and grow” p. 83-84.

14. Day 2 List eight ideas for dating that are different from those listed on p.84 and find four additional ideas from other students. List eight ideas for dating that are different from those listed on p.84 and find four additional ideas from other students.

15. Day 2 Silently read “Single dating: proceed with caution.” p. 85-86

16. Day 2 Complete the “What Do you Think” questions on p.87 Complete the “What Do you Think” questions on p.87

17. Day 3 Family Life Standard 8 : TSW understand the importance of positive self-concept and interpersonal relationships for healthy living. Family Life Standard 8 : TSW understand the importance of positive self-concept and interpersonal relationships for healthy living. 8.1 – TSW demonstrate healthy ways to express needs, wants, and feelings. 8.1 – TSW demonstrate healthy ways to express needs, wants, and feelings. 8.2 – TSW demonstrate respect for individual and cultural differences that help develop healthy relationships 8.2 – TSW demonstrate respect for individual and cultural differences that help develop healthy relationships 8.3 – TSW understand how mental, emotional, social, and physical health dimensions are interrelated and that problems in one dimension can influence another 8.3 – TSW understand how mental, emotional, social, and physical health dimensions are interrelated and that problems in one dimension can influence another 8.4 – TSW demonstrate skills to cope with attitudes and behaviors appropriately as related to social health. 8.4 – TSW demonstrate skills to cope with attitudes and behaviors appropriately as related to social health.

18. Day 3 Silently read “Dating: Awesome or Awful?” p 88 -89

19. Day 3 Complete the “What do you Think?” questions on p.90. Complete the “What do you Think?” questions on p.90.

20. Day 3 Silently read “Staying Cool – With Respect” p. 93-94 Silently read “Staying Cool – With Respect” p. 93-94

21. Day 3 Develop and record comebacks from the lines given by students on p. 95 Develop and record comebacks from the lines given by students on p. 95

22. Day 3 Read “Staying Cool” p. 98 Read “Staying Cool” p. 98

23. Day 3 Complete the “What Do You Think?” questions p. 99. Complete the “What Do You Think?” questions p. 99.

24. Day 3 Read “Saying no to sex outside of marriage may be difficult, but it is easier than living with the consequences of saying yes.” p. 99 -100. Read “Saying no to sex outside of marriage may be difficult, but it is easier than living with the consequences of saying yes.” p. 99 -100.

25. Day 3 Imagine telling someone you are going to break up with them. Imagine telling someone you are going to break up with them. What and how would you tell that individual? What and how would you tell that individual?

26. Day 4 Family Life Standard 6 : TSW understand the contributions of family relationships to healthy living. Family Life Standard 6 : TSW understand the contributions of family relationships to healthy living. 6.1 – TSW identify the development of personal values and beliefs and how they will affect future decisions. 6.1 – TSW identify the development of personal values and beliefs and how they will affect future decisions. 6.2 – TSW analyze changing roles and responsibilities (physically, socially, and emotionally). 6.2 – TSW analyze changing roles and responsibilities (physically, socially, and emotionally). 6.3 – TSW evaluate the influence of attitudes, emotions, and behaviors on healthy relationships. 6.3 – TSW evaluate the influence of attitudes, emotions, and behaviors on healthy relationships.

27. Day 4 Silently read “Marriage: To Love and Cherish” p. 121-122. Silently read “Marriage: To Love and Cherish” p. 121-122.

28. Day 4 What character qualities do you want in a spouse? What character qualities do you want in a spouse? Record your thoughts in your journal. Record your thoughts in your journal. What are some problems married couples experience? What are some problems married couples experience?

29. Day 4 Silently read p. 123 -124 Silently read p. 123 -124 Start with communication (continued from previous article). Start with communication (continued from previous article).

30. Day 4 How do you know if you are ready for marriage? How do you know if you are ready for marriage? What character qualities hinder a happy marriage? What character qualities hinder a happy marriage?

31. Day 4 Read “Stages of Marriage” p. 125-126 Read “Stages of Marriage” p. 125-126

32. Day 4 What are various stages that couples go through in a marriage? Define each one. What are various stages that couples go through in a marriage? Define each one. What stage is the most hazardous? What stage is the most hazardous?

33. Day 4 Read “Fatherhood/motherhood: Are you ready? P. 127-128. Read “Fatherhood/motherhood: Are you ready? P. 127-128.

34. Day 4 How do you know if you are ready to be a parent? How do you know if you are ready to be a parent? How do you know if the individual you are dating is the one you should marry? How do you know if the individual you are dating is the one you should marry? What does sex respect mean to you? What does sex respect mean to you?