1. Personal Health & Healthy Interpersonal Relationships in the U.S. August 20, 2013

2. Worries about school Relationship concerns Dealing with transitions

4. Costs covered by tuition & fees

5. Call 518-442-5800 Initial appointments generally available within 1-3 days Emergencies are responded to immediately

6. We value diversity in backgrounds, cultures, and individual personal characteristics Our staff is diverse

7. Emotional & behavioral wellness Sexuality and sexual health Alcohol and other drugs Suicide prevention Sexual assault prevention Healthy relationships

8. Friendships Romantic Relationships What are your expectations? Is this similar or different than back home? Relationships 101: Communication Respect Trust Supportive Free from violence

9. Agree/Consent Freely & Knowingly Communicate Verbally – by saying YES (Silence does NOT = consent) Judgment not impaired (e.g., asleep, unconscious, drunk or high) No coercion or threat (physical/verbal) 17 years of age or older – NYS

10. 1. Shame 2. Blame themselves 3. Don’t want others to know 4. Cultural/Racial 5. Drinking while underage

11. www.whoareyou.co.nz

12. 1. Listen without judgment. 2. Tell them it was not their fault. 3. Provide information and resources. 4. Let them decide the next steps.

13. RESOURCES Sexual Assault Prevention Consultation Email or phone Support and referrals Provide information and discuss options

14. A play by Equalogy One night.. four close friends…alcohol…flirtation …and a conflicting story September 17 th 7 & 9 PM PAC Recital Hall

15. www.albany.edu/counseling_center Find us on Facebook University at Albany Counseling Center Call 518-442-5800 Email consultation@albany.edu

16. 400 Patroon Creek Boulevard Shuttle every 30 minutes Science Library Collins Circle