1. Domestic Violence Met by Educated Finnish Women MAIJU PITKÄNEN, BACHELOR OF THEOLOGY, UNIVERSITY OF HELSINKI

2. Finnish background Finland top 3 in highest rate of women to suffer domestic violence in Europe (2014) 22 % Finnish women suffer violence in current realtionship (Piispa & Heiskanen) 50 % of Finnish women have suffered from violence or threat of violence by ex partner (Piispa & Heiskanen)

3. Finnish questionnaire Electric Completely anonymous Graduates of universities, colleges and polytechnics.

4. Terminology N= Size of whole group of respondents Frequency = respondents per question

5. Respondents 302 women 24–81 years old 110 pages of open answers 2 interviews

6. Respondents’ age (frequency, %) N=291

7. Respondents’ education, (frequency, %), N= 302

8. Frequency of Domestic Violence, %. N= 298

9. 27 % of respondents were or had been in a violent relationship, total of 82 women

10. Is violence continuous (current and former violent relationship)

11. Frequency of violence in the last 12 months. Current relationship, %. N= 18.

12. Domestic Violence is Physical, e.g. strangulation, hitting, pounding head on something, kicking Emotional, e.g. control over money, name-calling, jealousy, threatening with violence Sexual, e.g. pressuring or forcing into sexual intercourse

13. Most common emotional abuse 2015 Called you names (62 %) Intimidation with violence (46,9%) Jealousy (27 %)

15. Most common physical abuse 2015 Preventing from moving (60 %) Slap on the face (41 %) Kicking (36 %) Pushing, trying to force or forcing woman into sexual intercourse (32 %)

20. 1997 2005 2015 2015 NowFormerly Fear41442866 Depression38334453 Decline of self-esteem28294458 Shame26303967 Dullness24255047 Problems with male relationships15205666 Problems at work11151732 How did the most violent act effect on you? Did it cause: (%) N=82.

21. Physical injuries, frequencies. N=82.

22. Have you sought or did you seek help? N= ca 78. Frequencies.

23. If you didn’t seek help what were the main reasons for it? Frequencies, N=82.

24. Top 3 reasons for not seeking help 1. Case felt too minor 2. I was ashamed 3. I was afraid of revenge

25. Main reason for partner’s abusive behavior according to women, %. N=67

26. Best way to reduce violence in a relationship? Formerly in an abusive relationship. Frequencies. N=47.