3. The River Rushes On

4. Top 20 Training’s Mission:
The Power of the River Making Connections and Change Tom Cody, Willow Sweeney and Paul Bernabei
Top 20 Training’s Mission:
To enable people to discover their inner power to reach their potential and make a positive difference in their lives and the lives of others.

5. Why Are We Here? To enhance the lives of children by our
unique power to make connections and
see new possibilities.
To provide a practical tool that can be applied
in situations where change is necessary.

6. A Drop in the Bucket Mitch Barrett and Carla Gover
It’s a crazy world we live in, bad news all around. Brothers and sisters, if we’re gonna make a difference We’re gonna have to stand our ground. It’s a drop in the bucket, and a bucket in the pond, And the pond fills the river, and the river rushes on. Every river swells a river, until the power can’t be stopped And what becomes a mighty ocean, started as a drop.

7. The Frame
What We See Is What We Get

8. The Frame
See
Feel
Get Do

9. Making Connections

10. WHAT’S BEHIND THE FRAME?
See
Feel
Get Do

11. BELIEFS
See
Feel
Get Do

12. MESSAGES
BELIEFS
See
Feel
Get Do

14. Core Messages
Identity
Worth
Purpose

15. Potential: a power within us

16. Potential: a power within us…that waits…waits…waits

17. Potential: a power within us…that waits…waits…waits…to get activated

18. Potential: a power within us…that waits…waits…waits…to get activated
so it can come through us to make a positive difference

19. Potential: a power within us…that waits…waits…waits…to get activated
so it can come through us to make a positive difference
in the quality of our lives, relationships and experiences

20. Potential: a power within us…that waits…waits…waits…to get activated
so it can come through us to make a positive difference
in the quality of our lives, relationships and experiences
and, in doing so, make a difference in the livesof others.

21. Potential T L C Top 20’s = Think = Learn = Communicate Bottom 80’s
TIME

22. Circumference Messages in the Land of OP
Core Messages

23. Circumference Messages in the Land of OP
OPOs (Opinions)
OPEs (Expectations)
Core Messages
OPAs (Agendas)

24. Circumference Messages in the Land of OP
OPOs (Opinions)
OPEs (Expectations)
Core Messages
OPAs (Agendas)
POP (Please Other People)

25. Our Life Tree I Matter I am Good Enough I don’t Matter
I am Not Good Enough
GE Messages
NGE Messages

26. Making Change

27. Lanesboro Family Reunion
The Frame
See
Feel
Lanesboro Family Reunion
Get Do

28. Black Hills Family Reunion
The Frame
See
Feel
Black Hills Family Reunion
Get Do

29. When not getting what’s important
Change Nothing 80

30. When not getting what’s important
1. Change Nothing
Change ‘Do’ 80

31. When not getting what’s important
1. Change Nothing
2. Change ‘Do’
3. Blame
-Give away power
-Become a victim
-Stuck in yuck 80

32. When not getting what’s important
1. Change Nothing
2. Change ‘Do’
3. Blame
-Give away power
-Become a victim
-Stuck in yuck 80
Change See: Get Curious
-Ask: How can I see this differently? 20

33. RIGHT VS. CURIOUS

34. FINISHED FILES ARE THE RE-
SULT OF YEARS OF SCIENTIF-
IC STUDY COMBINED WITH THE
EXPERIENCE OF MANY YEARS.

36. FINISHED FILES ARE THE RE-
SULT OF YEARS OF SCIENTIF-
IC STUDY COMBINED WITH THE
EXPERIENCE OF MANY YEARS.

37. Are you sure
you are seeing
what you think
you are seeing?

38. Three kinds of Right 80 20 Right = Right Right = Wrong
Right = Right + (Correct but incomplete)

39. How can we see more? Create a crisis Ask someone else Change roles
Practice the Lesson of the Crack:
Say “Maybe”

41. 80 20 We are blind We don’t know it We think we’re right We blame
We lose power
We stay stuck in yuck
We are blind
We know it
We stay curious
We take responsibility
We maintain power
We make a difference

42. The River Rushes On