1. Life After High School…
College
- How will you choose your school?
- Do you have an intended major?
- Do you have friends going to the same
school?
- What are your fears?
Work
Military
Taking Time Off

2. College Roommates
Usually the #1 “fear” for kids attending college where they will have no friends present.
Expectations (BFF or “Freak”)
Talk Early and Often
- Are you a morning or night person?
- Can you sleep if music is playing or the lights are on?
- Are you a neat freak or is the floor your laundry basket?
- How do you feel about sharing food, clothes, or school supplies?
- How do you feel about overnight guests of the same sex? Of the opposite sex? How long can they stay?

3. I’ll know I’m really an adult when…..
Adulthood
I’ll know I’m really an
adult when…..

4. I’ll Know I’m really adult when….
Adulthood depends on gaining maturity, knowledge, and social responsibility.
Attaining adulthood is not simply a matter of chronological age or the legal rights that go with it, but a matter of maturing in ways that make one a happy, productive member of society.

5. Maturity The first step to becoming an adult is gaining maturity.
What is maturity?
Physical vs. Emotional Maturity
How can you tell if your mature?

6. Maturity Physical Maturity:
The state at which the physical body and all its organs are fully developed.
Physical Maturity will happen automatically.
By late adolescence or the early 20’s, most people will have achieved physical maturity.

7. Maturity Emotional Maturity:
The state at which the mental and emotional capabilities of an individual are fully developed. Many people will not become emotionally mature until after they mature physically.
Examples:
Achieving independence along with close relationships
Strong personal identity/Self acceptance
Strong values
Future goals
Why does it take longer for someone to mature emotionally?

8. Stages of Life Childhood: Birth – 12 years old
Early Adolescence: years old
Late Adolescence: years old
Early Adulthood: years old
Middle Adulthood: 41 – 65 years old
Late Adulthood: 65+

9. Developmental Tasks
A developmental task is something that needs to occur during a particular stage for a person to continue his or her growth toward becoming a healthy, mature adult.
What developmental tasks have you accomplished during your childhood stage? Adolescence?

10. Developmental Tasks of Childhood
Develop a conscience
Learn to communicate
Develop trust
Learn creativity
Learn initiative
Learn to walk
Sense of autonomy

11. Developmental Tasks of Adolescence
Achieving emotional independence from parents
Form mature relationships with peers
Preparing for adulthood-marriage, family life, and career
Achieve masculine/feminine roles
Accepting one’s physique
Acquiring a set of personal standards as a guide for behavior
Developing social intelligence
Being able to cope with success and failure
Develop problem-solving skills

12. Developmental Tasks of Adolescence
Place a check next to the developmental tasks you have already accomplished.
Circle the developmental tasks you have not achieved.
On a separate piece of paper write down one adolescence developmental task you accomplished and explain how you know you accomplished this task.
Write down one developmental task you have not achieved. When do you think you will achieve this task? What do you still need to accomplish to achieve this task?

13. Developmental Tasks of Adulthood
An individual needs to satisfy well-defined developmental tasks of adulthood in order to reach emotional maturity.
These developmental tasks take longer to achieve because they consist of learning and gaining insight and experience.
There are 4 major developmental tasks of adulthood.

14. Developmental Tasks of Adulthood
These Developmental Tasks include:
Individual Identity/Personal Independence
Intimate Relationships
Place in Society
Occupational Role

15. Establishing an Individual Identity & Personal Independence…
Having individual identity and being self sufficient
Self-Actualization: developing one’s capabilities to the fullest; striving to become the best that you can be. (Goals that motivate and inspire you)
What are the first steps most young adults take to achieve self-actualization?

16. Establishing a Place in Society…
Determining where and how a person fits into society.
Examples:
Political views
Religious views
Community Responsibility

17. Establishing Intimate Relationships…
Building close relationships with people, while still maintaining a sense of self.
Emotional Intimacy: the ability to experience a caring, loving relationship with another person, sharing your innermost feelings.
Marriage vs. Life-long partner vs. Single
How is the ability to maintain an adult relationship established?

18. Establishing an Occupational Role…
Finding a career (Career vs. Job)
How will you make this choice?
How will you prepare?
- Education, on the job training, internships, etc.
Money or Happiness?

19. Write down 4 specific developmental tasks for each stage of life
Do Now…
Write down 4 specific developmental tasks for each stage of life
Childhood
Adolescence
Adulthood

20. Stages of Life Childhood: Birth – 12 years old
Early Adolescence: years old
Late Adolescence: years old
Early Adulthood: years old
Middle Adulthood: 41 – 65 years old
Late Adulthood: 65+

21. Middle Adulthood
Transitions: critical changes that occur at all stages of life.
Graduating from high school and going out to make your place in this world – college, military, job, etc.
Middle Adulthood Transition =
Generativity: a shift of attention away from one-self to concerns for future generations.

22. Physical Transitions
Around age 40, adults show physical signs of aging.
- wrinkles
- dry skin
- decline of hearing/eyesight
- gray hair/thinning of hair
- muscle loss
- menopause (females)

23. Mental & Emotional Transitions
Most often people look back at what they accomplished in their life
vs.
“Mid-Life Crisis”

24. Social Transitions Death of parents
Adaptation to children leaving home to establish independence
Empty-Nest Syndrome: feelings of despair or loneliness that accompany children leaving home and entering adulthood.

25. Late Adulthood Final Stage of Development
Typically accompanied by retirement from the workforce (as early as age 50 or well into one’s eighties)
Typically free from pressures and daily responsibilities

26. Physical Changes Age spots Skin loses elasticity
Functioning of body’s organs slows
Immune system becomes less effective
Cancer, Heart Disease, Osteoporosis, Arthritis, Alzheimer’s

27. Emotional & Social Changes
Integrity: a feeling of wholeness and contentment.
Family and close social relationships, religion, and integrity allow older individuals to enjoy the life they have left and accept the approach of death.

28. DO NOW….. (9/9)
What is the difference between emotional and physical maturity?
What are the stages of life and the ages for each stage?
What is a developmental task?
What do you think happens if an individual does not reach the developmental tasks at each stage of life?