1. Oh, Hey girl hey! TAKE A SEC TO GRAB SOMETHING TO MUNCH ON! THE PROGRAM WILL START PROMPTLY AROUND 7:00PM By the way, a prize will go to the girl with the cutest PJ’s on – anyone got a onesie they want to rock??

2. Healthy Relationships: The good, the bad, and the ugly! BROUGHT TO YOU BY PEARLS PEER EDUCATORS ADVOCATING RESPONSIBLE LIFESTYLES

3. PEARLS – say what?  Meredith’s new peer education program  Sophomores – Seniors + Interns + Sherri  Healthy initiatives of spring 2014:  Condom roses, create your perfect partner, wellness buffet, Valentine’s sweets, STD screening promotion, safe spring break and alcohol awareness, Escape Fire, The Pearls we have here today are….

4. Why am I here? Prince Charming is on lock So single and ready to mingle Relationships? Who need ‘em?

5. We are glad you are here!

6. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mLUSfMIQ8Rk

7. 5 PHENOMENAL PARTNERS…....WHICH ONE IS BEST FOR YOU?

8. 5 POTENTIAL PARTNERS  Alex: notices the little things, always says nice things to you, always encouraging  Casey: helps you with whatever need, does favors without you even asking  Logan: always gives thoughtful gifts for holidays and ‘just because’  Jesse: Perfect for just lounging around with, likes to spend time with you, always has good conversations  Taylor: good with PDA, lets you know he cares for you by sitting close and touching you

9. Why the 5 Love Languages? We all are different

10. 5 POTENTIAL PARTNERS  Alex: notices the little things, always says nice things to you, always encouraging  Casey: helps you with whatever need, does favors without you even asking  Logan: always gives thoughtful gifts for holidays and ‘just because’  Jesse: Perfect for just lounging around with, likes to spend time with you, always has good conversations  Taylor: good with PDA, lets you know he cares for you by sitting close and touching you  Word of Affirmation  Acts of Service  Receiving Gifts  Quality Time  Physical Touch The 5 Love Languages

11. Words of Affirmation (Alex) Unsolicited compliments Hearing “I love you” Encourage/inspire Words of appreciation  Insults

12. Acts of Service (Casey) Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibility Is there something you keep getting asked to do? Do it!  Laziness Broken commitments Making more work for the other person

13. Receiving Gifts (Logan) Not materialistic Likes the love/thoughtfulness/effort behind the gift Gift = physical presence in a critical time  Missed birthday or anniversary Hasty/thoughtless gift

14. Quality Time (Jesse) Give undivided attention Quality conversations Sympathetic listening Have partner write down list of 5 activities they enjoy to do and do it!  Distractions Postponed dates Failure to listen

15. Physical Touch (Taylor) Very touchy! (not just in bedroom) Holding hands, kissing, hugging, spooning, Sit close Touch each other when leave and return  Neglect Abuse

16. EssentialBonus TolerableDeal-Breakers

17. Red Flag? Green Flag? Unsure?

19. Friends-zone Hook up buddies Arranged marriage Friends with benefits Quick daters Whole Package Good Friends

20. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PRrPMfhcyrY Start at 5 seconds

21. 168 hours in a week? LET’S MANAGE OUR TIME WISELY, GALS!

22. Thank you for participating! What’s next? Who wore the cutest PJ’s? Eat more food! Take our survey and enter to win gift cards! Participate in PEARLS events! Use what you learned (love languages, flags, love triangle, time management) to improve your life and relationships!